Recently me and my bf have been having some serious probs, I mean were close like marriage close, going to be next april. But lately me and him just cannot get along for some reason.. We have alot of stress in our regular lives and in our relationship its just been fight after fight. I havnt paid much attention to him lately and he hasnt either. We love each other so much and we get sad because we just cant get along. Well recently an old boyfriend from college called me out of the blue and found out that he's still madley in love with me. I talked to him for like a day. This couldnt have come at a worse time. Just when me and bf are trying to work things out, this ex comes and says all the things that my bf isnt right now. I know I shouldnt be talking to him, but I must admit I love the attention. I know our relationship will get better, but it's so addictive to hear a guy tell me that he loves me, and how beautiful I am and so on. What do I do?
2006-09-14 19:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple.
Inform your boyfriend that if he doesn't stop taking you for granted, you'll find someone else who won't.
We get comfortable sometimes... and we forget that you like to occasionally hear "I love you" or "you're smokin' hot". So, at times, a friendly reminder is necessary.
You know, I was about to choose "devil" on this one, but it can be saved. Give him a chance. If he blows it, you know what to do.
... cuz sometimes, knowing that someone else likes your girl as much (or more) than you do is all the motivation a guy needs to make things right.
2006-09-14 19:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert on this,but you're heading towards that juggling two people situation.Stay on course with your current,try to work things out.Regarding the out of the blue guy,he could be telling you anything just to get into your pants-but then again,maybe he really is sincere.Once again,one at a time.
2006-09-14 19:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
positive the conflict is on at circumstances it is going to develop into down acceptable volatile to be me. in basic terms using employing reality i'm a Christian would not negate the glaring undeniable reality that as a human I an weak incorrect doing. yet I do have some what of the accurate hand with my angel chum
2016-11-27 00:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by yellowhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just pre-marriage phrase, almost lot of men and women experience before marriage, cause human fear change. Changing is hard to adapt and not stable, so just realex, and you and your fiance had much more great time then this old boyfriend from college.
2006-09-14 19:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Martian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want and let the devil and angel argue amongst themselves later.
2006-09-14 19:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by slyry75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2006-09-14 19:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Vance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? i usually have devils on both my shoulders the angel rarely comes
2006-09-14 19:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angel
2006-09-14 19:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by haanofonua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋