Why do good women end up getting involved with prisoners?

Question

I can not seem to understand women sometimes. When I was stationed at Maxwell AFB, Alabama, there was a federal prison on base. There were Air Force women that lost their careers being involved with prisoners. You always hear that women want a man with a job, a man that will treat them right, but they end up with a prisoner. BTW,it is not all women, I am sorry for generalizing earlier.

Answer 1

Very difficult to read their mind truly... may be because of their courage, may be at that moment the girl was passing through some emotional set back... may be they are experimentative and do have courage to play with the danger.. may be they are expecting a rough game -- which some gal want badly "sometime"....

May be all of the above reasons are not true or may be some of them are true but can not be generalize anything.. it is entirely based on individual gal that how and when she has crush on whom and go for "him"

Many incidents have been recorded that many beautiful gal have preferred to marry bad boys of the street though they had enough opportunity to choose some wealthy guys because of their beauty but they did not... So we can say "mystery of mind -- especially a gal's mind" ... lol

Answer 2

No matter what a woman looks or acts like on the outside, no one can really know what is going on inside. I personally would not date a prisoner in a Federal prison or any other prison. Ok, so i need companionship, someone to lean on once in awhile, to talk to, and emotional support. I did not find my current male friend in a prison, and even when I wasn't with anyone I did not need any of those things bad enuf to go looking in a prison, but let's face it: A man in prison is going to give a woman anything she wants as well as he can so he his only companionship is not Bubba in the cell next door. Maybe it is just easier to "date" a man in prison than to date a man on the outside due to the restrictions in a prison. The men there probably aren't going to be too picky, and will most likely be the perfect gentleman so as to keep his woman returning for regular visits.

Answer 3

Women who chase after prisoners know they can get a good looking man who will be faithful to them as far as doing it with a woman. In fact, he will have one or more girlfriends in prison and will get more sex than he could have had on the outs. He will also get money put on the books for him and he can get the poor woman to drive all over town, deliver messages in person for him and via the mail, manipulate her until she is a wet mop. Unattractive women believe they have no hope to snag a good looking guy and they are legion in prison. Also, it is dangerous sex they are fantasizing about as they "do it" with themselves. It is the worst kind of debasing of a woman and the guards, etc., who read the mail know it and do not have a method of warning her. Look at the menendez brothers. One is married and gets to "do it" with the broad. The other, it is believed, is gay. Look at Richard Ramirez, the Night Stalker, who killed a dozen women in their homes. He had dozens of women in court leaving him love letters and putting money on the books. He is married and may get to "do it." His "wife," gets to get "done" by a mass murderer while being safe. How's that for a fantasy? Parents bring up these women so the parents are to blame.

Answer 4

The easiest answer is prisoners are con's. Short for con artists. They know what to say and how to say it to make the women believe that they want exactly what the woman wants and can give it to them. Add that to the fact that most women are nurturer's and we always want to help, heal, strengthen. Makes for a lethal combination.

Answer 5

Prisoners are sexy bad boys when you're young! You think they will change. While they're locked up they say all the right things and make you feel like you're all they've got.

When you mature, you get over it! At least I did. I wasted years waiting for my man to get out. Now I have the sense to avoid criminals. I'm grateful to be one of the women who grew out of that lifestyle!

Answer 6

truthfully i'm freakin' clueless. They %. the WORST adult men and attempt to alter them, however the appropriate guy walks with the help of and he's disregarded. Supposedly this is because of the fact their vanity is so low that they sense like they must substitute the guy so as that they are able to sense like they're relatively worth some thing. My GF grew to become into the comparable together with her ex and that i'm slowly attempting to instruct her the video games some adult men play to diminish their companion's vanity, notwithstanding this is stressful how irrational some women are whilst it includes loving somebody that for sure does not love them lower back. luckily she's making progression, yet i've got observed that those women tend to love dominant variety adult men, so as that they are actual partly fascinated in that variety of guy... in addition they lose interest particularly with severe high quality adult men because of the fact they think of they're susceptible punks. So there is in lots of cases yet another element of the story that human beings don't understand. particular, she's emotionally broken and attatched to the guy, yet she's additionally fascinated in a number of his abusive features because of the fact she misinterprets it as power and masculinity, on an identical time as severe high quality adult men are basically susceptible. She additionally does not additionally understand what she needs in a dating. All she relatively is conscious of is that she's sexually fascinated in dominant figures and that i assume abusive adult men are percieved because of the fact the "appropriate capture" for them.

Answer 7

people always want to have and try something that is forbidden and dangerous...that might be one of the reasons. I personally, would never date a prisoner, simply because i find them a bit too dangerous.

Answer 8

As is the case with 90% of the questions posed here that I've read so far (I just started an hour ago), the answers to your question are well known and documented.

Consider a visit to your library.

Cheers!

Answer 9

I think they are stupid, but what else can I say. Like what the heck are you thinking. I can not believe that people think this way. Once a bad person, always a bad person. I would tell them to think before the f***.

Answer 10

I guess because they are either lonely or just desperate.It's nice to know that this bothers you though, It show what kind of guy you are...