Well they spend the evening talking getting to know each other and spelling out what they are looking for in a relationship. Turns out they both want the same things - what a coinkidink! They hit off and make out - well as far as one can go without it being called a slutty night. That was saturday. Anyway, he asks to see her next day, she agrees, he never calls! Surprise!!! She calls him, he says hes busy with friends watching a movie too tired to go out! Thats sunday. She contacts him monday, no replies to her calls or sms's so by the evening she gets abusive - remember macy gray song "why didnt you call me?!". Tuesday. He calls her says shes over-reacting and things arent as they seem. Says he will call again after work - surprise NOTHING! Wednesday no contact whatsoever from both. Thursday he calls apologetic saying hes interested and wants to see her again (thing is cant commit to when) yada yada! She suspects hes in a relationship and is also a pathalogical psycho lying. Well?!
2006-09-14 18:40:51 · 11 answers · asked by Jena L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real question is why she would want to pursue this any further in the first place. If he doesn't respect her enough to call either when he said he would call, or failing that, the first chance he got after that, then she should be asking herself whether or not she really needs someone like that. When that same behavior becomes a pattern, she should realize that if she continues to pursue this relationship, she is just begging to be set up for a fall.
2006-09-14 18:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you had made it a "slutty night", he'd be banging (no pun intended) you door down right now.
... or he figured you weren't worth the effort.
... or he got some vibe that you were cool, but not cool enough to date.
Or he's just a player and his social calendar is *quite* full.
Hard to say what his issue is, but if your BS detector is going off(hell, mine's reacting just from reading the post), it's time for you... er, her... to cut and run.
2006-09-15 01:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA Stop the Music, Get Rid of the Hope, and
....SEE THE LIGHT....This "aint the man" you should be TAKING HOME TONIGHT
-Hope the rhyme helped.
Interest between two people should be shown as consistently as possible.
2006-09-15 02:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. You're both psychos. Have fun making little psycho babies!
2006-09-15 01:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should tell him she is too good for him and she should go get it on with someone else.
2006-09-15 01:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Greg M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds fine so far. Keep it up
2006-09-15 01:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the question?
2006-09-15 01:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. not worth the trouble.
2006-09-15 01:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Prevent Animal Cruelty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, so just walk away......
2006-09-15 01:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a mass..
2006-09-15 01:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋