What signals do GUYS give?

Question

If some guy [whom you've seen before --like at social meetings/programs but were NEVER "officially" introduced to] upon recognizing you in the middle of the street---grabs you, hugs you and kisses you on the side of the forehead while saying "Hey, how are you doing?".....

I've only exchanged glances with this guy in the places I've seen him but we had never been within three feet of each other--let alone having an introduction. I dont "know" him. He treated me as though we'd been friends for a long time ---, like I was his fellow church member or something.

Anyway, that was the last time I saw him before he flew back to college for the fall.

Answer 1

well did you answer him and/or both walk away then? he could just be affectionate toward you as a fellow member of meetings/programs you were attending together, but i think exchanging glances shows more interest then that depending on if you keep looking each others way often then you may have something there.hope you meet again soon

Answer 2

I don't see the problem here. He's one of those effusive guys who hug, touch and kiss a lot. He's also probably gay because he saw an opportunity to catch you off guard and "get some" before hopping on a plane. Did you guys exchange phone numbers? Do you find that you cannot sleep because you keep seeing his handsome face in your awake dreams? Just asking the obvious.

Answer 3

This guy sounds like a stalker, i would feel violated if that was me, but being im a guy, i would have punched his ***. Anyway, some signals I do to get females is try to make them laugh, find reasons to talk to them, LIGHT teasing(picking on them alittle to make them laugh) and asking questions like" What does ur boyfriend think of you working" If she asks "What B/F?" I cheer on the inside and say something like" Oh, I assumed you did, what a pity(insert slight smile here)" Anywayz, its like that cell phone TV ad, the guys creepy

Answer 4

Unfortunately, the question you have as the topic is not actually germane to what you really want to know.
I would not jump to any conclusions at all about his actions - maybe he was being very friendly, maybe he was doing drugs, maybe he was playing a prank, etc etc. You need more information before you can arrive at any kind of logical conclusions about this.

Answer 5

My opinion the guy is just being friendly and your reading too much into it! Problem is guys as your question states give off signals women interpret differently i.e what means one thing in their lingo means something else in ours and so thats where the trouble starts when you think hes interested, wants you when all he was doing is being friendly... and genuinely happy to see you! PERIOD

Answer 6

I am going to say it, because it's the first thing that flashed into my head while reading this... I thought, "Oh God the guy is on anti-depressants." Sorry if that sounds crude.

Also, guys aare not vague or coded. If you sense he is into you he is. If it's unclear if he is attracted, he probably isn't. Sorry that's best I can do.

Answer 7

Sounds like he was throwing caution to the wind and using this last opportunity to introduce himself to you in a manner that you wouldn't forget.

Seems it worked, too.

Yes, beautiful, that was the SIGNAL. Ball's in your court now...

Answer 8

Usually the growing penis is a good sign!

Answer 9

well if he likes you a lot then he will flirt and hit on you. he will ask you questions about you, he will ask for your number and your address. well they do strange things when they like a girl!

Answer 10

Did he have a banana in his pocket?