i do love men,but i always end up not believing them,so i never experience what they called long term relationship,how i wished to give a try but i easily gave up on them.
2006-09-14 18:29:16 · 14 answers · asked by jana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is that you have already decided to group them all together as "men" instead of considering them individually. Obviously its wrong, and so long as you continue to let yourself think that way, you are going to have problems with men as well as with any other groups of people who you judge as a group rather than as the individual people themselves.
2006-09-14 18:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing to remember is that all men are not the same. There are a lot of guys who are decent and caring, and wouldn't try to lie. You will never get a long-term relationship unless you take a risk and trust someone. And if you can't trust someone, I would hope you wouldn't try for a long-term relationship. There are no magic answers, and you have to take a risk, but the rewards can be incredible!
2006-09-15 01:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by AFL lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, men are really cocky and it takes one to know one. i think the best thing for u to do is take the risk, u can't find a perfect partner if u dont trust the opposite sex, besides that i see relationship as if ur riding a taxi. u commit ur life to the driver not knowing hu he is and what is he thinking. oftentimes they take u to where u shld go but others they rob u or molest u...so take the risk and be confident that u'll soon find a good man to share ur lyf with and dont give up on love, u may have loved a wrong person before but it is not the end of the road... continue on finding ur love.. as they say "collect and collect then sellect"
2006-09-15 01:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapeutic counseling is necessary. You are listening to your brain and prejudices and you are acting in a way that will make all men run. When we think we can, with our own resources, "make things clearer," we are self deceiving. I guarantee that you will never have a long term relationship without finding a qualified therapist who can help you discover the source of your believing you in spite of all evidence to the contrary.
2006-09-15 01:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are very few honest people. Are you honest to guys. It will be very hard to find a guy you can trust. Our culture puts emphasis on flash and temporary thrill, so the guys are just going along with it. It takes TIME to trust someone, you must se if his words match up with his actions also, does he confess or admit to the wrong things... anyone can tell the truth when its good, but a man with integrity will tell it even when it sounds bad. But are you really ready for the truth?
2006-09-15 01:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who have the hardest time believing are the ones who lie the most themselves. Make sure your own backyard is clean and house is in order before inviting anyone else inside. Once your S*** is straight you may feel better about the men in your life.
2006-09-15 01:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know your Mr right is out there and you know sometimes he is right under your nose..he is the one you are confiding in and telling your problems to..and is like a brother to you...he is JUST my friend!!! Well if you know who he is and you think NO WAY.... he is probably saying .. I wonder what she would say if i told her I really liked her..So, if this isnt you then all I have to say is..dont despair..and dont give up...trust yourself,,and have faith ...trust in God ...ask him exactly what you want and he will send him..Amen
Have a good night!!!
2006-09-15 01:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have been hurt vary bad at some point in life by a man we aren't all like that i wish some one would give-me a chance to show them i am a good man and sure thy are a lot out their like me good luck to you
2006-09-15 01:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah stop being so distrustful. Sounds like personal issues stemming from deeper social phobias. SEEK HELP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!
2006-09-15 01:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by wellduhpeople 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are just trying to impress you but they dont understand how so they lie to you cause they think there not good enough of a person to impress you thm selves
2006-09-15 01:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by jackgonecountry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋