I'm 18 yr.old and I haven't been a serious relationship yet. I feel left out or I'm doing somthing wrong that dosen't appeal guys.I think it cause I'm shy and I also look young.So many advice.
2006-09-14 18:01:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH GOD!!!!!!!! All i can say is BE HAPPY!!!!
You havent had the misery of heartbreak yet, when its supposed to happen it will. But you grow soooo so much from 18, you learn so much and become more aware of who you are as a person, i cant even start to explain the difference in my thought process about relationships now and how i thought about things then... and i would saly about 99% of people who have had serious relationships by 18 are not in them anymore and look back (as i do) and wonder "What in the Hell was I thinking?"
Have Faith hun it will come in time, until then... HAVE FUN BEING YOUNG...
2006-09-14 18:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben's wifey:
I'm only 22 but I know 18 is still too young to feel like you're behind the game:) Dating will come easier in the next few years. Just give them a smile that shows that you're interested. If they're interested they will at least smile back in way that will let you know and if they're too shy to come up to you you're either going to have to get use to initiating conversation or wait longer for someone to finally approach you. In my experience the nicer ones are usually shy about approaching girls that they are interested in. Your shyness will go away with age or at least to a significant degree. Good luck!!!
2006-09-15 01:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, that is a beautiful quality to have! Do not change who you are at all. I love shy and young looking women. My advice is if you find a guy you like, make some eye contact and smile at him. Also, if you seem him somewhere like at a restaurant or other gathering place, go back to it again to see if he is there at that same time and place. A sweet smile and pretty face with a nice remark or two is all it takes for me to be drawn to a girl. Somewhat older men (like me) will often appreciate more reserved women like yourself and respond to them, so keep that in mind. If all else fails, I am also available....:) L
2006-09-15 01:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so in a hurry to have a relationship? Youre still young and you can do so many things with your life aside from entering into a relationship. Enjoy life. When the time is right, the relationship you want will come.
2006-09-15 01:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. When I was 18 I didn't have a bf either. Your time will come. After that I met and had 2 beautiful relationships (one after another of course) One of which I'm still with today. Love happens when east expected.
2006-09-15 01:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by CaliforniaGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. I'm 24, and many of my gf's friends (22 - 23 year old) have never been in a relationship. And they are cute, good personality, etc. So don't feel left out. It will happen when it happens. If you're in Chicago and need a date I have plenty of friends!
2006-09-15 01:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Future Stenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, its not a problem. many people go through the same thing, so its natural. u just havent found your guy yet.
you dont need to change your looks to appeal guys. if you are shy and want a bf, then u gotta start hangin out more with guys and flirting with them. trust me, someone will notice you and love you for who you are.
so start looking, and stop tryin to get them to look for you! the right guy for you will fall for you and hopefully you'll know that.
it doesnt matter if you look young. just give it a shot with the guys and soon you'll realize its not about the looks.
guys also like girls who have a sense of humor, and a guy likes a girl who will listen to him. or care about him. so give it a shot, your results will definitely make you proud!
good luck!
2006-09-15 01:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lucas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you are only 18, you still have life in front of you, stop pushing yourself looking for a relationship, this will come to you in time. Finish school, get a career, your relationship will come, but your life and what you need to live in this world comes first.
2006-09-15 01:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by allensteele@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun fret!! Ur time will come & u'll b swept by luv unknowingly... Get 2 noe ppl more by engagin urself in activities such as sports... Warm up 2 ppl u feel related or hav a connection wif... Den steer slowly in2 r/ship (b frens 1st dun rush things)...
2006-09-15 01:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by *Lyzerg* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the time to date. You could check into some soical events at the college or check some of the online dating services. Good luck,
2006-09-15 01:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋