I don't know why but lately I feel like I've been driving my boyfriend crazy. I just can't get enough of him and I've been needy. How can I make that disappear and how can I get him to fall deeply in love all over again?
2006-09-14 17:50:31 · 7 answers · asked by girl-06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know part of your answer. You need to back off before he gets tired of it or starts to feel as if he is being stalked!
Other than your boyfriend, what other activities do you have? Even though I am sure you would rather drool over him all day, you would both be happier if you have something else to keep you busy. Do you have a job? If not, consider getting one (unless you are too young.) Something close enough that you could meet him for lunch once a week or so, but far enough that you won't be seeing each other all day. Or if you can't get a job, find something else to do with your time. Volunteer, take care of things that need to be done around home - anything to help the time pass before you can see him again!
When you do finish your activities, remember to take some time for you. And maybe put a little more time into planning something special for the two of you? Spending an hour or two preparing his favorite dinner will mean less time for you to spend with him once you actually do see him, but it will be better quality time. He should appreciate your effort and the room to breathe. And you can be proud of yourself for doing something special for him.
Get some new interests in your life! Don't totally leave your boyfriend out, but don't force information on him either. Go do something a night or two a week - make it a girls' night out or something! Add a little mystery to the relationship. Let him see that even though he is #1 in your life, (or somewhere up there) there are other things that can make you smile. Getting to know the 'new' you may help spark that old flame :) Just don't change too much. He must like something about you if y'all are already together.
2006-09-14 18:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease up on the neediness... let him know that youre there, but not all over him. write him an email or even a letter that lets him know everything that you feel about him. this takes the neediness away from him but at the same time he can breath with feeling choked by your over attention.
2006-09-14 17:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a day off. Tell him to organise a day out with his buddies, and when he gets back just apologise for being so clingy. He will be pleased that you recognised what you were doing. Don't over apologise though.
2006-09-14 17:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kathiiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make him happy as much as you can, hope you understan what I mean !!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 17:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by kingfo_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and try to be more nice
2006-09-14 18:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some sex
2006-09-14 17:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow.
2006-09-14 17:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋