i have this guy i had asked out a year ago and he said " your like a sister to me " grrr to the guys out there just say no. eanyway.a year later i go to school and i hear hes going out with one of my friends.now this is a year later after i asked him out. i had goten over him at least i thought but wen i saw them together it hurts. she new i liked him but didint care to tell me first i had to hear it through someone else. now every time i see theme there all over eachother him squezing her but and her rubing his well yeah you get the picture.she has had sex before and well she has d boobs i think thats the only reason hes going out with her ive been told i have beter loocks then her other then the boobs and experience . so i dont understand why he would go out wiht her eany oppinions on what i should do or how i should take it eany answers on this would be greatly appreciated
2006-09-14 17:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by Alena D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it should hurt...you liked this guy, but if he used the old "sister" answer, then he isn't into you....plus if he would date a girl based on her boobs, why would you want the guy. So he can dump you for some d cups one day.
2006-09-14 17:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem with love is that just because you love someone doesn't necessarily mean that they have to love you back. everyone has a story of a person they like or love that doesn't feel the same way and it hurts and it sucks especially when they find someone else. the problem is that you are going to (any way you can) get over it. your friend should have told you that they were together. maybe she's not a nice person or maybe she just didn't want to hurt you. but either way he is with her and you have to accept that and deal with it. you can't accuse him of only liking her for her boobs and experience that just makes you sound like a jealous and nasty person. spend time with some of your other friends or some other boys so that you can try and heal. don't blame other people it is not a nice personality trait and it will just make you look bitter. good luck.
2006-09-14 17:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a man says"Your like a sister to me"
What a man means"i dont want to go out with you"
By the looks of your letter you appear quite young so i wouldn't worry about him. Love comes and love goes. This will not be the last time. You will find someone one day so dont worry about him.
2006-09-14 17:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by shirahen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best cure for an old love is a new love. And, if he's with her because of boobs, he probably isn't worth your time anyway. Find another guy more worthy and have fun in the process.
2006-09-14 17:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by KTL1315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You understand don't you that guys DO go out with girls for other reasons than looks? You don't need to understand why he's dating your friend. All you need to know is that he's not for you and you're wasting everyones time obsessing about it. Move the hell on!
2006-09-14 17:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a serious sour grapes issue and need to get over yourself.
He is going out with her because he wants to. Why, exactly, is absolutely no concern of yours.
Get on with your life.
2006-09-14 17:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't need to say 'no' to you....he's been clear that he sees you no more than a sister, and that should tell you. be reasonable, get this out of your head, grab some esteem, and find someone who likes you not like a sister.
2006-09-14 17:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lament on it. you need to move on. he told you that he thinks of you as a "sister". that is the kiss of death! to top it all off, he asked your friend out and is currently dating her. there are many flags waving in front of you. they are all signs for you to leave him alone. you'll be fine.
2006-09-14 17:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i know how that feels...it hurted for me when i saw them together as well but luckly i wont have to anymore muhaha
2006-09-14 17:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋