And what could make her interest fall
2006-09-14 17:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she gets to know you and doesn't like your personality, doesn't like your goals, doesn't like where you are at in life, thinks you are crude, socially inappropriate, poor sense of humor, thinks you are irresponsible, doesn't like your politics, finds you boring.... Safe to say that it's probably not a physical issue with you. That's probably the first thing that she judged you on and found to be very attractive. You might be all or none of these things. These are just a few things that can turn a woman off. But it also might not be you at all. She might have just met someone else who is just as interesting to her and competing for her time. It could be anything under the sun. And it can dwindle in as little as the first date if it doesn't "click."
2006-09-14 17:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to answer because it can just be with a response phrase. I know that might sound crazy, but if you guys were in a conversation about a topic, and your response to the topic was a response that did not go over well with her she would probably not show it but it could die right then and that quickly.
Simple yet small things for women can have an immediate dwindle in our attraction to a guy.
Most men capture a women by saying all the right things, but being able to back it up. That's why one night stands happen.
It's true a women knows whether or not she is going to sleep with you the first time she goes out with you it's just up to you to play your cards right by saying the right thing and doing the right thing (being able to back up what you say) and that will determine how soon she will sleep with you.
2006-09-14 17:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's expressing her attraction in various ways even non-sexual ways and you don't get the hint or take notice. After about 3 tries, I'd give up. Some girls don't express it verbally they want to be mysterious about it mostly if they are shy. Interest could fall if you ignore her or are oblivious or she finds someone better worth pursuing who actually understands women. It always various with every woman. Not all woman are as straight forward as some. Another thing that she may lose attraction is if she prematurely learns some dirt on you from someone before getting to know you.
2006-09-14 17:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u really want her to leave u or 4get u????? Just think of the sweet times u've spent together, the little sweet nothings and the walk and ask urself, why u wanted her in the first place. If it was Bcoz of her body, dem u suck but if it was a persona, den think again.
And women leave u only if u go 4 another gurl, they put their hrt n soul in a relation, so talk 2 her clearly instead of trying whacko tricks.
2006-09-14 17:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by easha_ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-09-14 17:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very fast, girls don't like guys with insecurities, shy, or even poor posture. when you meet a women for the first time she already knows what she thinks of you in the first few minutes and if things don't go good in that amount of time, then its too late
2006-09-14 17:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Zombie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what annoys her the most. If she hates smokers, and she suddenly learns that person is a smoker, her interest can drop like that. It really depends on her personal preferences, likes/dislikes.
2006-09-14 17:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are married with 5 kids and watch it vanish on the spot
2006-09-14 17:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women's interest in you can evaporate in .00000000000001 seconds. Faster then you can believe. Just do something stupid in the beginning process, and you'll see.
2006-09-14 17:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by D@rKn3ss Fa771n& 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be rude or make snude remarks about her. Be a complete asshole and try flirting with some one else.
2006-09-14 17:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋