i mean, as long as it's NOT serious, is that something that i keep to myself? or will it turn a guy off if he knew that i was dating several?
2006-09-14 17:22:30 · 18 answers · asked by ang268 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was always honest from the beginning when I dated multiple guys. I never had one loose interest from it. Many of them even tried hared with me because they wanted me to choose them, not the other guy(s).
You never know when you might bump into one when out on a date with a different one.
You never know who has a jealous or possessive streak that may flare if he thought you were his, and his alone.
If he gets upset, or looses interest, then he's not worth the time. Tell him that you are not ready to commit to just one guy, and that you want to have fun dating while you are young. You don't want to be serious yet, you'll worry about that when you are older and start to think about marriage.
Most guys won't mind, as long as you give them the same freedom to date other girls.
2006-09-14 17:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might indeed turn a guy off, but if you want to be an honest person that's the risk you have to take. Incidentally, guys often aren't interested in getting serious and would be happy to date you with a "don't ask, don't tell" policy which would entail that they too can see other people. When I start seeing a woman I make sure it's abundantly clear upfront that I am not looking to get into an exclusive relationship, and that I reserve the right to see other people. I also assure them that I always use protection and will not be putting them at excessive risk by my promiscuity. Beyond that, the dirty details of how many, how often, and what sex acts occur really aren't any of their business and probably would actually serve to turn them off. Just make sure they know what they're getting into, that it's inexclusive, and assure them you're always safe. That's good enough as I see it. If they can't handle that there's always other guys who can.
2006-09-15 00:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is up to you, but some people make get hurt by the fact that you are dating a lot of other people. That is kind of the who wants to village bicycle type of thing. If you have been around a lot know one will want you.
2006-09-15 00:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me he already knows, he just hasn't said anything, you guys think you can hide it but we know, or have suspicion, we can smell another man a mile away, you have to decide if this player lifesytle is worth your relationship, if it is get out of the relationship, but you are going to find out later that you were just a piece of *** to the other guys, a trophy and a challenge, and to the one you let go someone who really cares and loves you, put yourself in his shoes what would you do then? You wont be happy but its your choice, just remember sweetie Karma is a B
2006-09-15 01:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by kalela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always keep yourself opened for the right one.
It takes two to start having a serious relationship.
When that time comes you will know what to do.
2006-09-15 00:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH THESE GUYS,
AND TELL THEM THE TRUTH, IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS,
THEN LET EVERY BODY KNOW THE DEAL. THEN THERE
ARE NO GAMES OR HARD FEELING ETC. I HAVE ALL WAY
FELT PUT THE CARD ON TABLE. THEN GO FROM THERE.
2006-09-15 00:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this...if you were dating a guy how would u feel if u found out he was dating a lot of other ppl? ask yourself that about each and every person u go out with
2006-09-15 00:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just dating if a guy knows you have options there quit to get it together may be one of the will step it up its clean fun competition
2006-09-15 00:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by abgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
Date as many people as you want until you find someone who makes you feel special.
You owe no one an explanation.
2006-09-15 00:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I wouldn't ever tell them. You shouldn't be dating more than one if you are in a committed relationship though.
2006-09-15 00:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋