have not seen my ex for over a year until he came around like 7 month ago and started playing the game of being in love with me while he was chasing another chick that was just leading him on but never really wanted a seriouse relationship with him, but now i found out that she is not the only "other" wooman, there is a lot and it seems like he is in a search for the right lady but mean while he is using me and lying to me telling me how much he needs me in his life, he is full of s....t and i want to get back at him big time.
2006-09-14 17:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by mich l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
treat him right. keep him satisfied and he won;t stray
2006-09-14 17:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me be the one to give you some good advice at get backing at men who are jerks. this is what I did
. My now ex, needed a ride to the Dr out of town because he had prostate cancer. He had a DWI and could not drive. He was the father of my child also. We had broken up a couple times previously but always got back together.
Well he needed a ride to see his specialist out of town. He had to wait over a month to get an other apt. this specialist is so booked in advanced.
I was feeling sorry for him, so I offered to give him a ride a few weeks in advance.
When I drove to his town to pick him up her had hickeys all over his neck. a grown man with hickeys. My daughtes was around seven months old. I never said a word about the hickies.
The dr appt. was out of town. A couple hours drive. So I had this plan going through my head. So we stopped an hour away for gas. I told him to get out pump the gas and pay for it.
He told me to hold his money for him while he went into pay for gas. So I generously held his two hundred dollars for him. while he was paying I drove off.
I left him at the gas station with no money, his cigerrets were in the car. He was not allowed to smoke in the car in front of our daughter. Here he was stranded, no money, no smokes, no cell phone and no way to get to his dr. appt or no way home
. I knew the phone would be ringing that night. His mother called me and chewed me out so bad. I laughed in her ear.
You see I am very evil and wicked when a man screws me over. I have done worse things, but wont have the room to tell you about them
. So you see dear, you have to do something like what I did. You have to get back at him.
I did not call it stealing money because he was not paying child support....
here a short version of what I did to another guy who cheated on me over and over. He was from another country, he was so close to getting his green card.
Well I called immigration and told them this and that, and some illegal stuff he was doing. He was working at this resteraunt as a manager and hiring mexicans and helping them get fake social security numbers. he could not figure out why he was arrested one day at work from INS. They said it was for fraud.
He spent the night in court. They investigated more. He had two hearings and the judge deported him from this country he is not allowed back in, even though he has family over here.
2006-09-14 17:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with not stooping to his level and getting revenge. Tell him frankly that you want him out of your life. If he tries to be all sweet, don't fall for it. Keep thinking about him playing all those girls, and you as well. You deserve someone much better. Don't worry, you'll be fine.
2006-09-14 17:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by kixter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soundslike my ex you where fine for a whole year so why can't you leave him alone and get on with your life. Don't fall for his crap.
2006-09-14 17:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY WANT HIM OUT OF OUR LIFE, THEN TELL
HIM THAT YOU ARE DONE WITH THE GAMES, AND BULL
SHI** AND MOVE ON, THE LONGER YOU ALLOW THE GAMES
THE LONGER HE GOING TO PLAY YOU. IT IS YOUR CALL]
GIRLFRIEND YOU NEED TO MAKE THAT CALL ONCE AND
FOR ALL.
2006-09-14 17:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A DIRTY RAT HE IS PUT BEN GAY ON HIS NUTS WHEN YOU GO TO THE BAR WITH HIM OR DO IT TO HIM IN THE CAR OR AT A PARTY THEN TELL HIM TO BUG OUT GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-09-14 19:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stoop to his level with revenge...just be straight and tell him I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU YA DAMN PLAYER and move on...theres soooo many other guys out there
2006-09-14 17:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋