My girlfriend needs me...?

Question

my girlfriend is really low because my parents think she is cheating on me (which she is not, and yes i am sure), how do i respond to the situation, ahe no longer feels comfortable around them, i just want things to go back to how they were, how should i help her

Answer 1

hey captivate i am pretty sure that your girlfriend loves you very much and that you should make your girlfriend feel like nothing is going to change between you and her. She really needs your help trust me. She really loves you if she cares what your parents think and she must really care about your parents to care about what they think so that means that she wants to be serious with you. And about youre parents it all depends because you never know what they thought about your girlfriend in the first place. She really does love you but just remember that she really does care about your parents especially your dad and mom cause she obviously sees good in them and you should really explain to them that she is not llike that. Because if she was then i don't think she would even try to fix things between your parents. She really has alot of anger toward them right now because she really cared about them and now she is really hurt because she felt as if she could go to your mom and dad when she had a problem and when she needed advice but sometimes a person feels as if there is no else in the world and sometimes she feels as if no one else is there for her and she really needs love and affection and not hate and doubts. She really cares about your parents and family members because her heart is really telling her not to give up on caring about your mom and dad. She really wants to appolagize for the worrying and for not calling in. But she really doesn't want to get hurt anymore by people she really cared about. Believe she really felt real comftorbale around your parents but now she feels betrayed that they woud think that abou her. I think that all she needs is time for herself to know that they care about her too. But she really needs you right now please donn't let her slip away because things are really getting harder for her and she doesn't want to loose you. The reason she cares somuch about whatyoure parents think is because she doesn't want them to hate her in the long run because she knows that she is going to marry you and have you forever and she doesn't want to be seperated from your e family cause she really cars about how they are doing and about what thery are feeling. Like said She really cares

Answer 2

There must be a reason your parents think she is cheating, try to find out what that reason is. As far as she no longer feel comfortable around them (which is totally understandable) She should try to keep her distance for a couple weeks and let it blow over. If it doesn't work then you may have to chose.

Answer 3

Do they actually think she's cheating? or is this a symptom of a deeper problem?

Perhaps your parent's are just trying to break you two up? Either way, try to handle this as maturely as possible. Talk with your parents about it, but don't let this escalate into a big fight, because that wont help things. Perhaps they were given an impression that she may be unfaithful, and they're just trying to protect you.

Answer 4

Ask your parents more about whats going on? Do they have any reason to think that shes cheating? Ask for evidence: maybe they saw her with someone. Don't immediately shut down your parents concerns, afterall, they are your parents. Talk to them about, because for all you know she actually could be cheating on you and theyre saving you the huge heartache later down the road. Good Luck

Answer 5

Talk to your parents and find out why they feel that way.

Maybe they know something you don't. Maybe they saw something, but totally misunderstood what they were seeing. Maybe they heard a nasty rumor and believed it because of a)who they heard it from or b)they weren't willing to give the girl the first benefit of the doubt (rightly or wrongly). Maybe it is simply a matter of they don't like the way she dresses or presents herself.

Seriously, talk to them, tell them how you feel, LISTEN to what they have to say - even if you don't want to hear it and have a discussion about it.

Answer 6

First ask your parents why they feel this way and what proof do they have. Let them know how badly the girl feels about what they have said about her, and that because of this you and she no longer feel comfortable together at their house. Then assure your girlfriend that regardless of what anyone says...you believe her and trust her

Answer 7

Be a man! to your parents & your girl friend-either your girl is doing the deed w/ somone else-and your parents see what you can't-or your parents want to control you-because maybe they don't like her-either way step up to the plate-tell your parents to back off-because it's your life-and we all make mistakes-just like I'm sure they have---love is blind---go w/ that---and Good luck

Answer 8

Sit down with your parents and explain things. Tell them how their mistaken belief is hurting your gf and hurting you. If they understand, bring your gf into the house and let them apologize to her. If they refuse to listen, explain to your gf that you guys will just have to not spend any time at your house till they come around to your way of thinking.

Answer 9

all you have to do is, have a heart to heart talk with you parents first and settle the misconception about your girlfriend. second with your parents,and gilrlfriend. facing the people and confronting them is the best way that you can do. have courage in doing this because if not, then your reltionship can be doomed and leads to nothing.

Answer 10

You need to sit down with your parents and tell them that she is not cheating and that you want them to treat her with respect because she is your girlfriend and you trust her!!!!