so i used to really like this guy, but then i realized that he is shallow and only cares about what people are on the outside. or, at least it seems. he acts so fake, and it really makes me mad. i used to think that he liked me too, because he'd be looking at me a lot, and he still does it. but then i realized that he's popular, and i'm not that social, meaning i don't hang out with the popular squad. last year i thought that he liked me, since he figured out my name without me telling him. i thought i liked him this year, but i've realized that i probably don't. or i'm not sure. we have a class together and there's 3 popular girls in it from his group. he didn't even say hi to me this year and doesn't talk to me. but when those girls aren't looking, i can see him looking at me sometimes. i'm not really sure what he wants right now. what should i do? do you think he likes me or is simply using me as eye candy?
2006-09-14 17:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point, I don't even think it matters. If he can't even take the time and effort for a simple "hello," then I wouldn't even worry about him. Concentrate your time and efforts on someone who is willing to actually get to know you and spend time with you. Popularity shouldn't be an issue or excuse; if someone really liked you, they wouldn't let what other people might think stand in the way of getting to know you.
2006-09-14 17:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my sister and you asked me for advice and this is what you told me:
I would say, "Don't give this guy the time of day!"
Seems like he''s on the make to get what ever's available to him at the time.
Sounds to me like you're way out of his league. In other words, you're so much better than this superficial looser. Wait for some one to come along that's worthy of your friendship and will cherish you as a friend and not some third string (Just In Case) girl.
Good Luck Beautiful
2006-09-15 00:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by De Expert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think love is a bit of an overstatement! He could be using you as eye candy but the thing with guys like this is to play it cool, if you start to act like you car about why he is looking at you he will think he has you under the thumb. If you play it cool it will spark his interest, so next time you catch him looking at you just stare at him in his eyes and mouth "what!?" or just raise your eyebrows like your asking a question (don't make it loud because you will draw attention to it). He will see you as someone who is worth chasing
2006-09-15 00:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you, that's for sure.
Notice he's only looking at you when the other girls aren't watching. That seems rather strange. Also, just because he's looking at you doesn't mean he likes you. He's not even talking to you.
2006-09-15 00:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye candy- He's a looker and not anything else- only when he wants something he'll want to "talk". Or maybe he's just curious to what you are thinking.
2006-09-15 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by DRP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what...i think he is just using you as eye-candy. Or you just tell him straight up what your feeling instead always just wondering what he's thinknig. Sure the answer he gives might be painful...but at least you know..good luck
2006-09-15 00:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by craigorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st question - does he love you? hardly
Bigger question - does he like you? Maybe, maybe not. If it is so crucial to him what the other girls might say or think if he talks to you, then he is not worth your time.
How do you say s-h-a-l-l-o-w?
Ignore him. If he likes you and is "man enough" to think for himself, he will contact you. Don't hold your breath waiting, though.
2006-09-15 00:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is simply using you as eyes candy.He does not love you seriously. and rsponsibly.He is not caring you when he is near other girls as an evidence.It is better if you forget him and search another guy who are better than him.
2006-09-15 00:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your first sentence you say he's shallow....then why in the world do you care if he likes/loves you or not.
What's that say about you?
2006-09-15 00:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not be sure whether he loves you or not. I can only understand that you loves him a lot or atleast care for him.
2006-09-15 00:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋