I'm not mature at all and I'm 22. I would like to have ether someone or something deep and meaningful in my life and I don't have that but I'm not mature enogh. what sould I do.
2006-09-14 17:04:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK YOU ARE VERY MATURE, A MATURE MAN IS THE
ONE THAT CAN ADMIT WHAT GOING ON.. AND YOU WILL
FIND THAT PERSON THAT WILL GIVE YOU EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED. JUST HANG IN THERE. THERE IS A SILVER
LINING. YOU JUST HAVE NOT FOUND YOURS BUT YOU
WILL.
2006-09-14 17:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people mature more slowly that others, so you are probably correct in your elf assessment. Just hang on for a while, experience things in life that excite you. Socialize as much as you can with people your age and older; church, school, clubs, etc.
Do not enter into an intimate relationship; but date when you feel like it.
Time will heal this gap.
2006-09-14 17:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) If you realize this, you are more mature than you might realize.
b) When - when you see someone you like, ask if you can buy them a pizza/burger and get their advice on something really important in your life.
c) Don't play games. Tell them this is real and not a new line.
d) Churches and libraries are more likely to have understanding people than sports arenas and bars.
e) You seem to have one definition of maturity down in your head. You might want to reality check it with your confidant.
2006-09-14 17:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of a serious relationship, if you have casual ones, then if you really feel you dont feel ready for it dont get attached which is hard, that means not making casual things last more than say a month. Or maybe you'll meet someone who's just like you & you understand each other. Just have fun, hang out with your mates etc... Go traveling...
2006-09-14 17:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Sounds like some girl told you you're not mature enough to have a relationship. It's happened to me as well.
2006-09-14 17:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, you are honest enough to know it.
Give it time. Most folks are better suited by age 25 or so.
I really didn't want to settle down till after 30. Had several long term relationships, just didn't want to get married and stuff.
Good luck!
2006-09-14 17:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a nightmare! i could be initially dissatisfied too, & then as quickly as i grew to become into waiting to place some authentic theory into the location, i could want to debate it futher with him. My husband is kinda like that & says issues that kinda throws me until eventually I talk it over with him greater & get his attitude greater appropriate. He would have been afraid to anticipate that he had a say in what you want. i individually do not understand, i'm merely attempting to supply him the benifit of the doubt. i could attempt to maintain an open recommendations approximately it until eventually you have the two had time to react much less promptly & are settled adequate to be waiting to fairly talk. He would have meant it in a "unfavorable" way, yet with a bit of luck not! & so it fairly is definetly nicely worth yet another deliberate disscussion. I want you my merely right!
2016-12-15 08:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by yakel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us men arent mature enough. Heck i dont even know if I am and im 20.
2006-09-14 17:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a total contradiction - you want a meaningful relationship but you are not mature. make up your mind. either grow up or avoid relationships
2006-09-14 18:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by leos1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live life and stop messing with ppl's head by getting involved with them passed friendship, it's better to be honest with yourself than lie and get in a situation that could turn ugly ppl are crazy these days.
2006-09-14 17:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋