OK, so I was on MySpace, and my b/f was on, and we were having a normal conversation, but when i was waiting for his reply, I noticed one of the recent bulletins he posted, and i read it, bcuz thats what i tend to do sometimes. You know how people have those test things when they say "I'm a slut lamma-o" and it ends up being your relationship status? Well, "I'm a slut lamma-o" was his title, and the "slut" part was supposed to mean he was single. I don't know if he took me seriously when I asked him if he would be my b/f 2 months. ago, and i haven't asked him about the bulletin.. 2 weeks ago I asked him if he still had feelings for my sister (they used to go out), and he never replied. I'm 13 and he's a year older than me. I know...im a bit young to have a b/f, but I'm always bored with life if I don't date. It's been 2 months, and we haven't even gone on an actual date! I really like him and all, but he seems to talk to me as if i was just his friend, not a girlfriend.
2006-09-14 16:54:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd rather not break up, but im afraid that if i do, he'll say "wut the hell....we weren't going out! If i do decide to break up with him...it will take me a long time to find a guy, actually like him, and ask him out, for that matter. There's NO hott or even NICE guys at my school, and I hate long-distance relationships. My b/f lives in Phoenix AZ, and i live in Mesa AZ & i wonder if that's the reason why this isn't working out. I have a friend, and she is going out with some guy, and they live close toghether, and they are literally the perfect young couple! Lol...one time i saw them making out by the lockers at school, and they were only dating for about 2 weeks! I wish that i was pretty enough to get a guy as nice as her b/f. I don't know what the hell's wrong with me, but this has seriously got to stop! If you have any tips on hjow to make you're boyfriend like you, or how i can make myself more beautiful- PLEASE tell!
2006-09-14 17:01:32 · update #1
I'd rather not break up, but im afraid that if i do, he'll say "wut the hell....we weren't going out! If i do decide to break up with him...it will take me a long time to find a guy, actually like him, and ask him out, for that matter. There's NO hott or even NICE guys at my school, and I hate long-distance relationships. My b/f lives in Phoenix AZ, and i live in Mesa AZ & i wonder if that's the reason why this isn't working out. I have a friend, and she is going out with some guy, and they live close toghether, and they are literally the perfect young couple! Lol...one time i saw them making out by the lockers at school, and they were only dating for about 2 weeks! I wish that i was pretty enough to get a guy as nice as her b/f. I don't know what the hell's wrong with me, but this has seriously got to stop! If you have any tips on hjow to make you're boyfriend like you, or how i can make myself more beautiful- PLEASE tell me how!
2006-09-14 17:01:47 · update #2
I liked him too much to not ask him out...i know- it was a bad idea to ask him out, but i just like him too much, and he's definetly too good for me. I need serious help!
2006-09-14 17:03:27 · update #3
He's Christian, and that complicates things.
2006-09-14 17:04:51 · update #4
I'm scared the most bcuz i know...it's better to wait till im older, and that i have plenty of time for love, but my family has sort of a rep for the women getting breast cancer, but i know- you don't usually get that til you're middle aged, but that's not completely it: Nobody knows when they're gonna die, and im afraid that if i don't get into a good relationship, that i'll have lived a sad life!
2006-09-14 17:08:02 · update #5
you should never afraid of finding another bf.but if you really love him go to him,hug him and put your arms around him and tell how you feel of him.but if you just want him cause u r afraid of finding a bf it's better to break it up right today.and be sure u'll find another soon
2006-09-14 17:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, you do not belong on MySpace or Yahoo Answers. Do yourself a HUGE favor and try to grow up normally. Here is a list of things you need to do to get your life in order:
1) Stop using MySpace and Yahoo Answers.
2) DO NOT WATCH TELEVISION. It will only mislead you into thinking someone like George W Bush is a man of respect or something. Fact is, he murdered everyone he could on 9/11 and is murdering people daily and has been ever since.
3) When you turn 18, VOTE THIRD PARTY.
You are a child. Do not let the media or the public school system or anyone lie to you. Open your eyes and pay attention to the world around you. And, there is plenty of time for love, MUCH later down the road. Give it a rest.
2006-09-14 23:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems obvious that he doesn't think of you as a "boyfriend". I think you should ask him about the bulletin board. That way you might be able to better judge how he sees the relationship.
If he reacts by not answering you, you can know for sure he doesn't think of you as his girlfriend. If that's the case you'll need to find a new guy.
If not you might need to work on him some more, but it might be worth it. Otherwise, find a new guy.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-15 00:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 and you should be concentrating on your school work and planning out a future for yourself not wasting your time on myspace (sorry, but it's true!). Not to mention that you are too young to date (I don't care how mature you think you are). Don't waste your time on boyfriends. You'll have plenty of time for relationships when you're in college. You should be having fun with your friends instead!
2006-09-14 23:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the point here is not wheter or not you are dating, the question is "why are you trying to go out with your sister's ex boyfriend?" How does she feel about this? I think if you look up the dating rule book you see that is a big no no! Perhaps you should look for someone else, I don't think he's that into you. If he wanted to be your b/f you'd definately know about it.
2006-09-15 00:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be confu... this is not the guy for you.yes you are too young for him and relationships all together.concentrate on yourself and not these b\s boys.read a book or do things that make you feel better about yourself then to think about some BOY. live your young life. besides if he comes after you and you know he was your sister friend at first that makes him a big loser anyway. he'strying to do an R-Kelly on you
2006-09-15 00:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Denton P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loi!!!! You Know Why People Your Age Shouldn't Have Boyfriends And Girlfriends??? BECAUSE EVERYONE ELSE YOUR AGE IS TOO IMMATURE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS!!!!....*ahem........Anyways, The Kid's An Idiot....Stay Single For Your Own Sake.....Talk To Him In 5 Years When He Grows Up Or Something........
2006-09-14 23:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Can't Make A Good Avatar!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, that sounds like me 7 years ago! haha. I'm 20... listen... don't waste your time with this guy. He seems to be on the fence, if not oblivious to the fact that you think you guys are dating. If he isn't taking you out, or holding your hand, or kissing you, forget about it. Just take it at face value, be his friend, and find someone else to like... it sucks to worship some guy who doesn't feel the same about you... so why bother?
2006-09-14 23:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by vanillafr0st1ng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ARE just a friend, not a girlfriend. Boyfriends and girlfriends go out together, hang around together and do stuff together. They don't simply chat on myspace.
Yes, you're way too young to have a bf and being bored with life isn't a good enough reason to date.
2006-09-14 23:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should ask your sister to see if they have talked or anything like that. But if not tell your sister to ask him about you. But if you don't want to do all of that then don't talk to him anymore until he answers your question because if he ignores you on something that youre feelings are based on then you should ignore him cause even though you are only 13 you still have feelings i understand good luck
2006-09-15 00:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋