so i used to really like this guy, but then i realized that he is shallow and only cares about what people are on the outside. or, at least it seems. he acts so fake, and it really makes me mad. i used to think that he liked me too, because he'd be looking at me a lot, and he still does it. but then i realized that he's popular, and i'm not that social, meaning i don't hang out with the popular squad. last year i thought that he liked me, since he figured out my name without me telling him. i thought i liked him this year, but i've realized that i probably don't. or i'm not sure. we have a class together and there's 3 popular girls in it from his group. he didn't even say hi to me this year and doesn't talk to me. but when those girls aren't looking, i can see him looking at me sometimes. i'm not really sure what he wants right now. what should i do? do you think he likes me or is simply using me as eye candy?
2006-09-14 16:40:46 · 6 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, he's probably using you simply as eye candy, but even if he does like you somewhere in that shallow heart as his, you know deep down in yours that you don't like him and he's no good for you. You're too good for him. It's your turn to be the snob where he's concerned.
2006-09-14 16:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy like that in a few of my classes. I thought i liked him but really i was just happy because a popular guy thought i was hot. All he wanted was a physical relationship though. Girl,... he was hot but if he asked me i probably would have said no. I didn't really like him, just the attention i was getting. Do you think it is the same situation?
2006-09-14 23:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are thinking too much into this, as most women are inclined to do. Why don't you try talking to him, huh? Then you'll really find out. Just start a normal conversation and don't mention the looking or anything like that. Keep talking to him and see where it goes from there.
2006-09-14 23:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by bohemian_crush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's hope for u
if u really want him that badly
but if youre making it too obvious , he will naturally look
but if youre not and he IS looking then ok
but a word of advise: if he is diong all this when theyre not looking, then hes either really modest which i doubt
or hes a jerk thats laughing at you or hes not man enough to come tell u how he feels without caring about his apppearance, his social level of talking to you, or just the mere fact that he might like you
if u really like him, then tell him
but dont ever, ever CHANge ur personality bec of a guy-
theyre just not worth it-- no, theyre not worth YOU
2006-09-14 23:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by wonderer of life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound unsure about how you feel about him. I recommend encouraging him so that if he wants you he does ask you out. Then you can say yes and see where things go from there. If he never asks you out, you didn't lose anything.
Good luck. He may just turn out to be a spectacular guy who was hoping he'd meet a girl just like you.
2006-09-14 23:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's definiety treating you like an eye candy girl !
cant you tell ? you already highlighted all his bad points. . ..
trust me, if he really wants you then will come for you
but since he already seems so fake ...he just aint worth it !
2006-09-14 23:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋