so i used to really like this guy, but then i realized that he is shallow and only cares about what people are on the outside. or, at least it seems. he acts so fake, and it really makes me mad. i used to think that he liked me too, because he'd be looking at me a lot, and he still does it. but then i realized that he's popular, and i'm not that social, meaning i don't hang out with the popular squad. last year i thought that he liked me, since he figured out my name without me telling him. i thought i liked him this year, but i've realized that i probably don't. or i'm not sure. we have a class together and there's 3 popular girls in it from his group. he didn't even say hi to me this year and doesn't talk to me. but when those girls aren't looking, i can see him looking at me sometimes. i'm not really sure what he wants right now. what should i do? do you think he likes me or is simply using me as eye candy?
2006-09-14 16:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him and look at him as if you feel "you are better than him." This will bug him and get his curiousity up.
2006-09-14 16:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
greetings....let him look. if he's really interested in getting to know you, then he needs to grow up and be a gentlemen about it. for starters he can approach you and introduce himself. until he does that, i wouldn't be to concerned. boy's are going to look a girls, that's just how it is. but if he's looking upon you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable then that's not acceptable. if you genuinely like this guy and would like to know him, then make it happen. you take the step and be in control of the situation. you sound like a bright young lady with allot on the ball. so don't be intimidated. good luck
2006-09-14 16:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with a guy like that is you don't know what he's looking for. If he is, like you said, shallow, then yeah he's probably looking at you another potential notch on his belt. I'd forget him and look for someone with a bit more depth.
2006-09-14 16:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he doesnt like to look at you when hes with the popular people he is just feeling ashamed to look at or talk to you in front of them. So i conclude that he likes you but he is feeling ashamed to like someone who isnt that popular. Take my advice and forget about him coz you two aint gonna last fot 5 minutes.
2006-09-14 16:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problem is on himself, he doesn't want to go steady with anyone.
Don't waste your time holding on to him cause it is only going to hurt you at the end. Now that you realized his true behaviour then you must try to forget him. Don't fool yourself just be sure he is not the right guy for you.
2006-09-14 16:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea...u might not want people like that in your life...if he doesn't pay any attention to you when these other "popular" girls are around then he prob. does not care...if he really did like you...he wouldn't let these "popular" girls get in the way...but it's up to you...I guess you could talk to him about it and see what he thinks of ya... GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-14 16:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since all he does is look in your direction...it doesnt sound like he likes you or is using u as eye candy seeing as how u guys dont hang out.. i mean sometimes i catch myself looking at people without really meaning to, and im not interested in them, and dont really give a **** about who they are ..so maybe thats his problem..?
2006-09-14 16:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by mkelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You intrigue him. He is trying to be cool but if you are not in the same crowd, he has to hide the fact he is into you. Very immature, yes but reality. Just be yourself and dont go out of your way for him. He will come around.
2006-09-14 16:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is suing you as his eye candy.
2006-09-14 16:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋