excited about them. I want to start doing things for others. I have the ideas(maybe big ideas)but no means, or money..I get depressed, exhausted, restless. I m divorced with 2 adult children who have their own lives..I want to get started and give to society.
2006-09-14 16:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by princess of the sea 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You don't have to have money to give back. Just try to find an organization that will give donations as a tax write off. Go to a donut place and ask if you can have their old donuts to drop off to a homeless shelter. Or call a rental moving truck place and ask them if they would be willing to donate their truck so that you could pick up all the couches and refrigerators college kids throw out and give them to low income families. Just brainstorm and think how you can find a way to give back. Good Luck :)
2006-09-14 16:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is new behavior, it's probably depression. If you've always been like this--I'd say that it's adult A.D.D. In either case, a change in routine might be a good thing for you.
Why not try volunteering once a week in an adult literacy program or museum or whatever suits you? There has to be something out there that would make you feel useful, and that you'd look forward to doing. If you have a Barnes & Noble or other bookstore in your area, sometimes there are activities at night or on weekends. It's also a way to meet people in a low impact environment.
And if getting out into the community isn't practical, then find something you like to do at home. Re-arrange your bedroom furniture--as silly as it sounds, a new perspective when you wake up in the morning is a cheap and easy way to get your mind to open up to new ideas.
Once you start completing things in small steps, it'll turn into a habit. Good luck!
2006-09-14 23:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cluny Brown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a position in life in which depression is very common, and it is a perfectly legitimate emotion for your situation in life. If a mood of sadness and directionlessness persists for more than two weeks, see a doctor. You may have suffered a change in the chemical balance of your brain, in which case you will not be able to fix yourself, and ordinary living will not help much.
But medical science can help. And find a counselor or sponsor or support group. Mainstream Protestant clergy (Methodist, Presbyterian, Episcopalian) can help you find local resources, and will not give you a hard time about religious matters you may not want to discuss.
Alternatively, your local Crisis Assistance Center, Mental Health Center, Department of Social Services, or even the Police Dispatcher may be able to help you find what you need.
There used to be lots of programs that could help you find direction and multiply your options. Most of those have been shut down in recent years by republicans who don't care what happens to people and who wanted to take the money and give it to their rich business friends and golf buddies.
So you can do yourself a big favor by voting Democratic in the next couple of elections and encouraging everyone you know to do the same.
I am not expressing political bias, but just explaining economic reality. A basic change in government is essential if the poor, the middle class, and those who need help are to have a better future.
There are still some programs funded on a small scale. See the career counselor at your local community college or technical school.
2006-09-14 23:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by aviophage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be a little depressed. Most people who get depressed do the same things that you do...putting things off, not being able to get started. Have you been to a doctor to see if you are clinically depressed? I would suggest that you start at your family doctor and tell him what you just told us and let him assess you to see if he feels like you may be a bit depressed. You don't have to live with depression. I have seen my ex-husband get it so badly that he wouldn't get out of bed for days he would just sleep and sleep. There are a lot of good meds out there that can help. Do yourself a favor and go talk to your doctor.
2006-09-14 23:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of those feelings could be symptoms of depression. restlessness, inability to concentrate on projects, feelings of useless or worthlessness and separation. there are a few good medications on the market that can help with those feelings. i don't know how long this has been going on but obviously you are bothered by it. seek the help of a qualified psychiatrist in your area.
2006-09-14 23:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit deeper understanding of this desire will really help.
It is the process of doing than the thought of " I like to do " that keeps a person going. But it takes time and patience to get the real 'feel' of starting to like the process of doing !
2006-09-15 04:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purpose to life. Finding something you enjoy doing and getting payed to do it. This is a dream to be sort after. Having the time to do this is even harder. Try being humble. Walk into a any church and sit down and listen to your heart. Peace comes from within as, God is who you expect God to be. Share the word.
2006-09-15 00:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by frenchfriedfrogslegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too, i think its attention defecit disorder, at least thats my excuse i tell people.
2006-09-14 23:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋