hi,my name is Sia and i am 26 year old female and straight...ive been disconneccted from everything.i believe in God but i feel like my faith has let me down.ive been feeling really down and worried on and off for the past four years(long term) and perhaps since april(short term) an havent been able to lift or stay lifted and was wondering whats wrong with me.Im a nice,compassionated,honest sweet girl who is searching for some friends to connect with and that i can talk to anytime about everything espcially how i feel from day to day and to have fun with.im also hoping to connect with some open,understading attractive males to accept me for me and help me become stronger as a individual.I have been shattered since loosing my father four years ago.ive had hard time keeping up with things and moving on from day to day.For me this was the most tramatic thing to happen in my life or childhood and has cause me to be withdrawn, seriously unhapp,depressed,angry..somebody help me.
2006-09-14 16:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Try reading some motivating good stories, biographies of great people who came up the tough way , against all odds !
Slow identification with such real life heroes would motivate us to sustain our own happiness and cheerful living.
2006-09-14 21:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faith has not let you down dear, it has simply been pushed aside from the worries you have. We are to live a spiritual life not a worldly life. You believe in God? Yes?! Then there is the answer to all. But let's deal with the lose of your father. I to lost mine last Nov. 20, 06 and his birthday was just here and I have a hard time moving passed it. I have buried a wife and two kids, 6 months, 9 years old and both parents. Time will not heal the wound but will make it easier to handle. Don't cry for the lose of your dad but rather celebrate his life and the times you had. Start simple and try this. Take your favorite memory and frame it in your mind and when your down look at it. Next ,do one thing that he enjoyed( a sport or hobby) and make it your own. You can't live in the past, you know this, right? Then move forward. My oldest daughter is 26 also. We all have loved and lost and you wanted an honest answer, I hope this helps. I will check and see if you respond. I will lift you up in prayer.
Rev. Young
2006-09-14 16:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by ebay junkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sia, why at this low point in your life, you mention you need some , understanding attractive males to accept you. that is so dangerous. unless of course, you think dating will lift your spirits. when i lost my father (i was with him, i felt his soul leave us),
i thought i would die, i prayed the rosary every night for so long. i asked God to take away that feeling in my stomach, you know that feeling well, don't you. it finally was replaced by an understanding, that, to die is a protest to stagnation. once born we must only do one thing, it is to die. we can choose, because of free will, to fill out our parentheses(that's what i call life), in the best way we possibly can. the doldrums, the down moment's, they are necessary for us to recognize the up times. remember that we must die, so instead of dying one hundred deaths, just die that once. it will all pass, look within yourself for healing. God will send you those who will be of help to you, for this i will pray...
2006-09-14 16:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-14 16:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It has got here approximately, and whilst it does, properly, as you be attentive to, it is not a sturdy feeling. I used to attempt to reconnect to my existence via performing some undesirable issues, merely to sense something. these days I merely pass to mattress and sleep it off or refer to somebody approximately my emotions. It has helped a lot.
2016-09-30 23:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may be depressed. you should go and talk to someone...a doctor, a psychologist....i noticed one thing in your question relating to men....that you wanted to have some to help you become stronger as an individual. this is going to have to come from YOU not a man.....you get to feeling better about yourself, Sia, and then you find a nice man....best of luck to you....if you ever need to talk, you can add me to your messenger....
2006-09-14 16:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by jackie_in_wv 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best advice I can give you is to see a mental professional and/or group therapy for depression.
2006-09-14 16:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheer up girl !!
hug from scotland
2006-09-14 16:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋