My boyfriend (of a couple months) always talks about us in the future (marriage, kids, a house, ect) but I don't know what to think of this. We've only known eachother for a couple months, yet we are closer to eachother than we are with anybody else. According to other people (who know him and about his past relationships) say that this one is different stuff like he has it bad for me. I just don't know.
2006-09-14 16:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by lilone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you're 25 and see if you still feel the same way.
2006-09-14 16:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only known him a few months don't plan marriage with him yet. I like the past generations dating system. They dated more then one guy at a time. I mean dated!!!!!!!
Then whe they found one they realley cared for they WENT STEADY after which they BECAME ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED and the finaly the big step of MARRIAGE
2006-09-14 16:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be it... I have been married for 11 years but have been with him for 15. We met when I was 17 and he was 25. I was told he was a male "whore" and he was different with me. We have 2 beautiful children and are happily married. He asked me to marry him after only 2 months of dating and we have been together since. Good Luck...you may not want to let this one get away!
2006-09-14 16:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by naughty_mattress_monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, I wouldnt worry to much about this. I mean when my boyfreined took me on our first date he talked about the same things. And now were going to get married. Ive never felt that way about someone. The very first day talking to him, ive felt like ive known him forever .. Like we were best frined from day one, and that feeling has never slowed down. I know ill be with him forever, so i wouldnt worrie to much about what your boyfrined says. It just means that hes falling in love with you, and he just wants to show you how much he cares for you...
But if its scarring you, and you dont want the same things as he does, i would tell him to slow it down a bit.
it will work itself out.
2006-09-14 16:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your position once. Don't try to feel the way he does -don't push yourself. On the same token, don't push him away because you're uncertain about your feelings. Explain to him that you just don't know how you're feeling right now and that it'd be better if you took things slowly and let things run their course.
2006-09-14 16:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by mamamia_delux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only known him a few months you have nothing to worry about trust me
2006-09-14 16:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time you will learn everything by his actions they always show the real person and what they have inside.And if he's the one you won't even have to wonder about it.Time will tell.Good Luck.
2006-09-14 16:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you wait until 5 more years.
2006-09-14 16:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has it bad for you, but it sounds like you don't have it bad for him. Maybe you need to tell him to slow down a bit.
2006-09-14 16:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to "other people"..
Do as your heart says...
My b/f & I booked the church for the wedding
after one week of getting to know
each other...
2006-09-14 16:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋