ok im shy in front of girls...but now as shy as long time ago....when i get to know her or "break the ice" then im pretty comfortable but at the start im bit shy....girls say im cute but the thing is i dont know how to respond to those comments...when gorgeous girls stare at me.... i really dont make too much eye contact and they think im not interested...but the thing is that i am very interested but too shy to approach her or know what to do....this is just killing me...i love girls soooo much and would love to cuddle a girl in my arms...but this stupid behaviour of mine is ruining my life... im in my very early 20's....it is not as easy as saying just be yourself or be normal....thats the thing i am not normal in front of beautiful girls especially....so frustrating...i feel like that shyness is going away year by year....as i was extremely nervous when i was younger....but now only lil bit....but still im scared i will not enjoy the best part of my life which is when ur young(cont)
2006-09-14 16:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by PIMP_DADDY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(cont.)..and that would be very sad for me knowing i could have had many girls as they seem interested alot..but im too pu*ssy to go and talk to them and get to know them....how do i get more confident?
2006-09-14 16:11:56 · update #1
First thing: don't be afraid of eye contact. Practice making eye contact with everyone you see, and it'll become easier to do with the girls you like. Once you make eye contact with them, give them a smile if you're interested, and see if they smile back. If they do, then it's time to walk up to them and introduce yourself.
And I mean that literally. My big problem has always been knowing how to start a conversation with women. I've found that starting with the basics works: "Hi, my name is...".
Follow it up with a complement about something unique and non-sexual about them. ie Complement their smile, their hair, their eyes, maybe their clothes or even something they're carrying or doing. But don't complement them on their nice *** or big breasts, and don't complement them on any piece of clothing that shows off sexually, like complementing their shirt when they'll think you're staring at their breasts.
Then, ask them a question that they can't answer in one word. For instance, if she's carrying a psychology book, don't ask if she's studying psychology. That might get you a yes or no answer and stall the conversation from there. Instead, ask what she thinks of the book, and what areas it covers. Get her talking in a way that shows an interest in her opinion.
That should be enough to get you started. There are actually books on stuff like this if you want more detailed advice. I've been thinking of reading one of those myself.
2006-09-14 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Blueghost73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer became: i'm 15 and that i think of previous is while a individual does not pick to do something exciting anymore. Like circulate to a park, or play with a puppy. The question became asking my age and what age I planned to be previous.
2016-10-15 00:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need a confidence booster. I know this sounds bad and will probably get some women mad at me but if you are only talking/approaching very attractive women you may feel intimidated by them as you feel inexperienced and unsure of yourself. Therefor, seek out a relationship with a woman you are not nervous around, for whatever reason, you don't think she is that pretty or you don't see her as serious relationship material, whatever. The thing is to practice talking to women, whenever and wherever, until you don't have the problem with nervousness.
Also a couple of drinks helps to loosen your inhibitions, but more than that will make you sound stupid.
2006-09-14 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go join some clubs that you are interested in, like sailing, gardening, cooking, etc. Especially those with a good mixture of the genders. Your focus on things that interests you will make you less self-conscious of the women folks. You'll eventually learn how to feel comfortable around them enough to say things. Have fun! Change your name-it doesn't impress anybody.
2006-09-14 16:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their are girls telling you that you look good then you must so remember that when you are on a date and I know that it is is hard but look her in th eye it has always been able to make my heart melt and feel more attractive to guys. Just be brave you must look good or you wouldn't here from those girls use that to boost your confidence, Your great don't let shyness get in the great person that you are
2006-09-14 16:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to relax. My husband was the same way. Then, one day, he landed me! One of these days, the right girl will see through your shyness, and try to drag you out of your shell. You'll jump right out of that shell!
2006-09-14 16:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by shojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your cute so you got it going. You just have to confident about yourself and talk to them. Good luck!!
2006-09-14 16:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, im having the same kinda trouble.
answer my question, plz......
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2006-09-14 16:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and relax.
2006-09-14 16:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kind of say thanks but don't be over or under confident
Good Luck!
2006-09-14 16:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Everyone and No One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋