some times it happens that we want to do things but then we wonder weather it is right or wrong how can i decide weathr what i am doing is right or wrong?
2006-09-14 15:51:15 · 23 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yeah. it's always hard knowing whether you've done the right thing or not. you have to be able to trust yourself that what you are doing is right. some people think about it thoroughly and some people have to make decisions right away while others do what they think is the right thing to do. you know that it's wrong if you feel that it is. by the end of it, you would know whether you've made the right decision or not.
2006-09-14 15:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we know that we are doing wrong; such that if our mother or father or mate were there we would not be doing it. However for those other times, always do what you believe to be right, regardless of what fear might have you believe otherwise. However, if you later find out that it was the wrong choice, try to figure out what beliefs you had that caused you to chose that choice; for in that way, you will learn from your mistakes, which all spring from beliefs, and when faced with a similar situation in life, you will know the true right thing to do the next time.
2006-09-14 23:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this is by developing your moral compass. This is your automated response where you do what you have to at times when you don't have a chance to think everything through and weigh each option. The way you develop your moral compass is by deciding whether you agree or disagree with what other people do in a given situation. These preset judgments allow you to act according to your moral conscience without making you second guess yourself or create self doubt. Then afterwords when you have a chance to look back decide whether you feel that you acted right or wrong. this in turn further develops your moral compass which enables you to make snap decisions without being riddled with self doubt, and so on and so forth
2006-09-14 23:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is too general. If you don't know whether it's right or wrong, then there are two possibilities.
1. You don't have enough knowledge to make the decision. In that case, you need to ask the advice of someone who does know, or research the question (e.g. Google it).
2. You know in your heart that it's wrong, you just don't want to admit it.
2006-09-14 22:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. its Ur conscience which decides.we have an inner voice which at once alarms us when we r wrong.if something u r doing is not wrong u will not have to ask this questin.2.morals we r brought up with play a important role in this.3.ur real well-wishers may be Ur mother father sister or brother Ur son ur daughter may guide because they are people whom u can rely upon and moreover they know u very well.
2006-09-15 01:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have to make your mind what you want to do.
Then deside coarse of action to be taken.There may be 1 or more tasks.
Write down on paper your action plan.Once you started emplementing it DO NOT LOOK BACK.
What ever you feel right/wrong dont get confused.
do not change your mind again & again.
Once you will see some results then you will get some confidence & you will feel that what you were thinking wrong was also right.
BE CONFIDENT
2006-09-15 01:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times if we want something bad enough, we can convince ourselves that it's ok to be doing it. You have to be careful, and be honest with yourself. Usually the consciense is pretty helpful in these situations. :) Or maybe you could ask someone close to you who's opinion matters to you, just to see what they may have to say.
2006-09-14 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Keri H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on tell us more details bout wot wrng things ure doin...we at yahoo answers have all the time in the world to give advises
2006-09-14 22:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming we are talking in general. So, without knowing any details... the minute you feel guilt... it's wrong. If you have to think about it, and ask "is this right or wrong"... ITS WRONG. If something is right or feels right, you don't hesitate to do it.
2006-09-14 22:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by lester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change ur frame from doer to visualiser i.e. shift urself to a position when someone else is doing the same thing n u r just a mere viewer if u think it to be rt it is n if wrong then wrong....
2006-09-15 00:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by hanspie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋