A couple nights ago, I was @ my grand-mother's house when my girlfriend calls me after our small group meeting!!! My girlfriend needed to "talk" to me about "us"!!!! Her and I talked on the telephone in my bedroom and she, first, said to me"I don't love you anymore" and then ended our relationship after which I was crying to my grandmother??????? What do I do???? Any advice from my friends here @ www.answers.yahoo.com?????????
2006-09-14 15:51:05 · 12 answers · asked by michael_kleman2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If thats how she broke the bad news, that she wasn't inlove with U any more. Then Im sorry I'd have to let her go, Like the others said I wouldn't rush into another relationship, take your time and really get to know her. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-14 16:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up over the phone?!! What a low class ***** - Jeez. I guess she was afraid of a face to face where real emotions might be expressed. I know this will sound strange and you will probably not do it, but whatever you do, DO NOT CONTACT HER AT ALL ANYMORE. Why? After awhile she will not be able to stand it and will call you again wondering why you did not call her - yes, even though she was the one who broke up with you. She is looking to see if you are some sort of girlie man and would ask her to take you back etc. DON"T DO IT. Stay strong and make her realize that it was YOU who did not need HER. It is a gamble for sure, but try it OK.......I speak from personal experience. After the smoke clears, go on with your life, living well (and with a new and better girlfriend) is the best revenge.
2006-09-14 23:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did rite!! she told u that she did not love u anymore-- she could have just cheated on u. I am sorry that u had to cry this to ur grandmother--it is ok to cry!!-- at least this is a closed chapter in your life and u are able to move on. Im not sure the age, or how long u 2 been together, but just remember, u will one day meet that special one, and u will be glad that ur x g/f broke up with u.
2006-09-14 23:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by re r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who did that. That was really messed up. If u really love her and u want her back, talk to her civilally and not all crazy. Don't rush with it. Tell her that u still love her and u would like to know why she left u. From there just work it out. Hope that things go well hun.
2006-09-14 22:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by hotmami_85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her back, better go and visit her and ask the reason why she broke up with you. Make every effort to save your relationship. But if she really mean it. Then let go and find another.
2006-09-14 22:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. She is not worth the time or tears. There are more than enough like her in the world.
2006-09-14 23:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by mjcariati1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that it hurts so much. The way to lessen the pain is to get involved with life. she took the cowardly way to break up with you.
2006-09-14 22:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is really loosing. you are a sensative and probably strong with love so keep your chin up and eyes open miss perfect is out there
2006-09-14 22:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by weldergooroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to take a break from seeing girls. never rush right back into a relationship, then if girls ask you what wrong then they might seam that your desperate.
i hope you feel better and hope that this helped!!
2006-09-14 22:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it face to face!
2006-09-14 22:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋