why am i bit shy around girls? i mean im not scared..but too shy to talk....how can i get rid of this embarrassing thing?....any tips on how to be more confident in front of girls?....ok its not easy as just go and talk to them....is there any cure...do u think its an anxiety problem? if so what can i do....any meds? any help would be good!
2006-09-14 15:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by PIMP_DADDY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i think saying just be yourself is a stupid answer....thats the point of asking the question....i cant be myself in front of girls....
2006-09-14 15:52:33 · update #1
for starters, don't be afraid just go up to them and introduce yourself, they might just as nervous as you are. and if you see someone that you wanna talk to, go and talk to them, cause if you don't you never know what could have happend. create your own destiny by putting your self into a conversation with them, if they aren't interested, then big deal, everyone gets rejected.
2006-09-14 15:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what you need to do is just take your time. don't rush yourself because then you'll get all tounge tied and embarrasse yourself. don't worry im not trying to make you scared. if you and your friends are around girls just join into the conversation. the only thing that can get rid of your embarrassing thing is to just go at your own pase. i no what you mean about how its not an easy thing but for me its talking to guys.
i hope that this helped!!
2006-09-14 22:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally normal. When you are around girls, don't think of them as prospective dates. Think of them as friends. You won't be as nervous. Try to hang out and talk to women as much as you can, after a while you will become more comfortable.
Forget meds for anxiety, all of them take weeks to start working and lower your sex drive.
2006-09-14 22:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had same problem. i was told to begin by hanging and chatting with the not so pretty girls until u get more comfy. then go for the pretty girls always give a compliment on a facial feature.
2006-09-14 22:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey do you have a friend that is a girl if so then you could just pretend that you are talking to her a talk to another girl. you can plan a converstion and walk up to a girl casually and start talinkg but make sure you don't seem to desperate.
2006-09-14 22:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i was like u but i had to take it out and not to be scare. it Pitt when some body takes the girl that u want, just because u couldn't open you mouth.
2006-09-16 03:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by khalidhamed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people would say to just be yourself.
mayb u need to talk n socialise more. u need to change ur mindset about girls. when u see a girl, dun only tink about making her ur girlfren, tink of making frens with her first.
2006-09-14 22:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by not calling yourself pimp daddy. Then find some self esteem.
2006-09-14 22:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy girls a drink, thats a good start.....
2006-09-14 22:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you have to do is hang around us some more and get know us
2006-09-14 22:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋