we were good friends then i asked him to homecoming, he has this perv hidden side i dont really like. He's always asking me if I want to play with sex dice over the phone and what i'm wearing, and i honestly find it nasty for who he is at school. but my friends say i should break-up with him. But I am feeling more attracted to some other guys. This always happens to me because whenever i start dating some guy, i start not liking them. I just want to know if there is something wrong with me, i mean im 15. shouldn't i be over this by now? Will i ever be able to stay tied down? I never liked being committed to anyone and i really want someone who i feel like i love them. I need advice before october 7th please! thanks to all who helped me.
2006-09-14 15:32:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chill my girlfriend. This is perfectly normal and went thru the same stage. A guy was lucky to make it a week w/me. Sometimes its the game of getting that guy to date you and once you have him there is no more attraction. He might of been a great friend but now that your his girlfriend he is expecting alot more of you...tell him to get lost. When you find the right guy you will stick w/him. If this guy really liked you he would respect you and treat you as a lady not some wham bam thank ya ma'am. You dont need advice from us you know what you should do. It doesnt matter what we think...its what will make you happy and morally proper. Just tell him this was a huge mistake and thought it would work since you loved him so much as a friend but have come to realize thats all he will ever B to you is a friend. Best to be honest now then let this continue on. Good luck.
2006-09-14 15:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds lik u are still trying to find urslef-- and it also sounds lik u mite be dealing wit someone who is sic-- and n the mind!!-- im not goin to say that that is a fetish, or does he really need to get some help. U r still young, concentrate on u, and goals u want to set, that is something that is an ongoin battle. When the time comes for u to date/ or be with that "Prince Charming"- at least u would have something to offer him, and not a lost cause-good luck
2006-09-14 15:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by re r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I didn't start actually liking a guy for more than a month until I was 17 or 18. You are normal.
Second, If you don't like him as more than a friend, be fair to him. Call it off and move on to the next one.
2006-09-14 15:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me a bit too. Like last year with my old boy friend ( Now my Ex ) I just asked myself why Im doing it. Im not quiet sure how I did but my new boyfriend is great. I feel as though I wasnt with the right person. And maybe you are influenced by your friends to liking him eg. They drool over him so you do too.
Hope you sort it out and Good-Luck!
2006-09-14 15:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by HiddenSecret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, they're called commitment issues. Lots of people have them- you're not a mutant. Although that would be cool. haha. Tell him you're sorry and you're just not looking for a serious relationship. No need to be tied down at 15 any way. Good luck.
2006-09-14 15:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh you have plenty of time even though I'm sixteen and love my boyfriend it's been 9 months.. when you find the right guy then you'll know when it's right.. try all the guys on a date not like go out with them immediately.. break up with this one if you don't like him.. trust me he's not worth it
2006-09-14 15:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by fersitf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person, that is why you date different people. To see if you will like them or NOT
2006-09-14 15:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by ohmywhatamessimin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink the obvious answer is for u to break up with him.
it's normal for u to be fickle minded about ur feelings for a guy at this young age. mayb because u duno wat u look for in a guy yet.
this is the time to experiment. dun feel so bad about not liking a guy after dating him for awhile. u're just stil trying to find out about guys now anyway. u still have a long time to go girl.
in the meantime just date-hop to find out wat u really look for in a guy. i'm sure by the time u're 20 years old, u'll find ur own definition of Mr.RIght or 'DREAM GUY".
chill out n have fun now!
2006-09-14 15:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by keira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with him.. set him free.. let him know that its just not working out between the two of you and offer him to remain friends.
2006-09-14 15:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think oyu a whore. A little prepie girl who wants something, gets it and then when she has it, she is uninterested on it. spoil little brat. My help to you is go suck a nut.
2006-09-14 15:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by enano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋