you see i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me back what shoould i do to find out?
2006-09-14 15:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by HappieeFam[ILY] 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
There's a quote from Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte---"tis better to have loved in vain than not to have loved at all."
bare your feelings to this guy. believe it or not, some guys are afraid to make the first statement of "I LOVE YOU" in fear that the feeling will not mutual, and, thus they feel rejected. it's always a risk, but you'll never know unless you take the giant leap.
good luck!
2006-09-14 15:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can be tricky. I would say that first, it depends on your age. During Grammar school (K-12) it is more socially acceptable to find out that kind of thing through a friend. You know the drill...your friend hints around to his friend (without being totally obvious) whether his friend is or is not into you.
At college age and above it is easier to tell through experience. Usually when the couple is more mature, they communicate feelings a little better.
Also, you would probably already know the answer to this question if he was totally into you.
Hard to say without much info. :-)
2006-09-14 15:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by hol_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common question for alot of people. Just hang around him but not like a stalker but more like a friend. Talk to him, hang with him and such. He might see the beautiful person you are. but if he doesn't he sees a good friend.
2006-09-14 15:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lalalalala! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell Jason that you do not prefer to harm your emotions or sound tacky yet you dont imagine this is understanding and that you want to cut up. doing the breaking apart is demanding and also you sense accountable yet oh nicely, this is existence. i imagine you fairly like Aidan and im really positive he's smitten with you because he's getting jealous. promote off Jason, and ask Aidan out.
2016-11-26 23:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he call you everyday? Does he pay for everything? Is he a perfect gentleman is respectful, trustworthy, honest? Does he inititate meetings with you? Does he fix dates like appointments with you and turn up on time? Does he say he misses you? Has he had sex with you?
2006-09-14 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hold back "loving" him until you at least know him enough to tell if he loves you. Seriously...otherwise you are just heading for heartbreak. Talk to him, get to know him then hopefully he will tell and SHOW you. (Show meaning: consideration, romance, respect, spending time with you, etc)
2006-09-14 15:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by silentstorm025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I fhe doesn't feel the same, move on.
2006-09-14 15:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl... dont be so nice too him start spying on him if your on doubt.... anyway f you really love this guy....well love him everything that includes his badside.....
2006-09-14 15:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by muyak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask.
2006-09-14 15:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him.......
2006-09-14 15:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋