My boyfriend wants to tie me up and do what he wants with me. And that's cool with me but now he wants me to tie him up. Well I've always been pretty submissive and I don't really know what I'd do with him in that position. Does anybody have any ideas of what I could make him do? Thanks!
2006-09-14 15:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by hi:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The slogan is "tease and denial". Once your boyfriend is tied up, spread-eagle wise say, take your time. Don't touch him for a while, do a slow striptease instead. Next start using your fingers, lightly, but avoiding the more sensitive areas. If he is starting to make noise or complain, ignore him, or better gag him or threaten to stop altogether.
After a while, take a break, sit down, look at him.
In the next stage, blindfold him. Start caressing him again, vary the bodyparts, use both parts and keep surprising him. Use objects, soft clothes, oil, ice cubes (this needs some preparing as you don't want to leave a tied up person alone...). Administer some pain, pinch, tickle. Vary the treatments.
In the last stage, concentrate on the more sensitive areas and take him where he wants to go.
Have fun.
2006-09-14 22:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by cordefr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you are switching, you would have general idea of what would be good activities just from your experience as a bottom. The safest thing to do is to simply do with him what he does with you, perhaps mixing up the order a bit.
A second source of inspiration would be to figure out what he doesn't do with you but you would like done with you. I suspect that there are occasions where you've pondered (probably when you're tied up) what he might do but doesn't.
A good source for information would be websites that provide information and stories on bondage situations. (A Yahoo! search on sexual bondage is a good place to start. So is Wikipedia's articles on BDSM.) There's often a lot of new ideas that emerge when you peruse through them. Whatever tickles your fancy should be considered. (Did I say tickle? ;-) ) It will depend on what level of S/M he would be willing to endure.
There's always the basic stuff regarding blindfolds and gags. Another thing to consider is different positions and techniques. Again, the websites referred to before should help out. However, the biggest thing of all is direct experimentation. Play around with different ideas and see what works.
Most important of all is to have fun for both of you. I wish the two of you well.
2006-09-17 07:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is into pain then you could use an assortment and combination of torture methods such as pinching, biting (without breaking skin), slapping, hair pulling, spanking, c*ck and ball torture, tight nipple clamps, hot wax, needles, flogging, etc. Other possibilities are to put him in a chastity device and then continuously tease him. You can also put make up on him and treat him like your b*tch. There is always verbal humiliation, breath control, anal toys, and face sitting.
2006-09-17 10:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by spiderspell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tie him to a chair and give the boy a lap dance, then sit on him and finish him off!
2006-09-14 22:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by kourtney j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you tie him up to tease him if you hold him off from gettin off for a while eventually he will be beggin for it its a fun power trip
2006-09-14 22:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not give some good ole fashioned head!!!
2006-09-14 22:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by slikk pikka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do to him all the things that you wish he'd do to you, so you can "inspire him" when it's your turn to switch off again.
2006-09-17 22:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does this really belong on a site that has 12 year olds on it?
2006-09-14 22:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋