do you believe in finding the one in high school?
2006-09-14 15:03:24 · 24 answers · asked by B.R. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can it happen? Well, it is in the realm of possibility. However, I would not waste my time TRYING to find the one in high school. Date to date, but don't date in an attempt to find "the one." Don't obsess about it. You have a long life ahead of you. No need to rush finding your perfect mate. You are still young and will change a lot as a person over the next several years. Allow yourself to develop your own self identity first. Then, when ready, go try to find "the one".
2006-09-14 15:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just in high school. You might find "The One" 10 years out of high school! If you are worried that you won't find THE person while in high school, don't. It isn't worth it. Time is only a path that we are forced to walk along, no matter how many times we want to turn around and change things. But yeah, totally off the subject! Sorry. I don't REALLY believe in finding "The One" in HIGH SCHOOL specifically. But it's happened! So yeah, there's MY mouthful! :)
2006-09-14 15:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Just Another Broken Heart♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well odds are that the people in your high school are a lot like you and share the values u have because they have grown up in a similar envioronment. but the key isn't just what u have in commen it is also where you want to be and how u view yourselves. so is it possible yea. is it better to look around before settling on the one, definatley. My man didn't go to my high school but he went to one a few towns away had I not waited till i found out who i was and took the time to have a lil solo fun i would never have met him. I think u have to be open to the idea that "the one" is anywhere, its great if he is at your school but don't limit yourself there is a whole world out there. So Yea there is a 2% chance they are in the high school you go to but a better shot that they are elsewhere.
2006-09-14 15:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in finding the one in high school. Before I would never had believed it. But I am now in love. I know what if feels like and we plan to be together for life. I know you are thinking, that silly kid, but I know it can happen. My mom and dad met in high school and was married at 17 and 19. Love is love, it can happen early or later in life.
2006-09-14 15:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Only M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. My husband and I met when we were in high school but I thought he was an a$$hole, because he was a jock. We started dating when I was a senior and he was in college. We dated for 7 years then he asked me to marry him. I said no. However, we were in Carmel, California for the week-end and he eventually talked me into it. We been married for 21 years and have two kids. So, yes, it can happen. (By the way, he was my first so I never did experiance any other guys.)
I don't regret it because I've been very happy in my married life. You have to pick the right person though.
2006-09-14 15:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by vik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do because I did! I married my high school sweety and we've been married for almost 14 years now and have 2 lovely daughters with a third baby on the way. We're still very much in love.
2006-09-14 15:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes intense college sweethearts fairly do get married, yet not that oftentimes. issues substitute once you bypass off to varsity. you at the on the spot are not on your danger-free little international the position mom and pa watch over you. You meet a lot of diverse human beings and also you regulate your way of searching at issues. quite some the time the highschool sweethearts can not substitute interior an same way and finally end up breaking apart. you want to imagine of your destiny for what you want to do - not who will be in it. more effective than 1/2 of the marriages bring about divorce at present. you would possibly want to prefer to have a sturdy education to help your self later in existence.
2016-11-26 23:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to MEET him there, but just be very cautious jumping into marriage and/or babies too soon.
Recently I attended my class reunion, wherein we counted the number of high school sweethearts that were still together vs. all the others. Amazingly, while most of us were divorced, with many people being on at least their 2nd marriage... 10 out of 12 high school couples that we could think of were still happily married.
Also my daughter just married her high school sweetheart this summer, with his parents (which she was quick to point out to us) still being married after being high school sweethearts.
2006-09-14 15:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. its only high school, there's more in life and more adventures after high school. ur probably thinking that high school is where u meet ur love of the future but think whats after high school, college, travelling, jobs, meeting new people all the time etc. high school is way down the list if u look at the other things in life.
2006-09-14 15:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been out of school now maybe a year and i have been with so many girls and still need to be with more. No way to i believe that
2006-09-14 15:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋