2006-09-14 14:51:34 · 32 answers · asked by extremeparties 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First of all you cant say most men. Not all men ditch the wife and baby to fend for themselves
2006-09-14 14:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by kcraig2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that it all but I mean even Elizabeth Hurley's boyfriend chuck out on her. The problem is with really knowing the person you are in a relationship. As the ones who carry the most responsiblities when pregnancy happens women have to be double responsible on how they are with. Trust me there are a lot of men who will stick through the experience and come out shining but it feels extreme when you find the ones who don't.
The problem is that someone might have felt this isn't a deep thing, for now I am getting what I want and she is getting what she wants. Know the father of your child before he becomes that. Really think, is this the person the one I want to really be my child's father. Then at sometime you have to ask him what does he feel he would do if pregnancy does come up.
Let him know you don't want to be the one holding this issue down alone. Then plan for it, I mean what are the financial responsiblities that are needed. If you can't meet the finances of the situation that should tell you to keep that condom on and make sure that you have emergancy contraceptive plans install. Hey even waiting till you're married could be a good thing but I won't preach it. You know the risk now take precautions. The reason why is because they can. There body is set-up for the hit and run, what you should be checking out is if their mind works that way too. As stated before a lot of men are willing to see it through because it is important for them. I personally if I had a child would be there.
2006-09-14 15:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Attacus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way, men don't get women pregnant! It's a group effort.
This doesn't justify any man ever running out on his responsibilities as a father. Being a happily married father of 2, I can't imagine not having my kids. So, I guess I don't really have any answer for you, other than plain immaturity on the run-away dad's part.
If they had any idea as to what they were missing out on, that alone would be punishment enough.
All the best to the single moms out their trying their best to be both mom and dads to their children.
2006-09-14 14:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by De Expert 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey it takes 2 to make a baby its your responsibility to have protection just as much has his that's why every man who doesn't want kids show wear a condom and every woman who doesn't should take birth control
and in the chance that u do still get pregnant how do u think men feel when a woman has a child that she wants and he doesn't. that's like think if a man cud make u have a baby instead of getting an abortion
get what I'm saying?
that's most likely the reason
cause they are forced into it
2006-09-14 14:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say MOST men but allot do. Mostly I believe because they didn't have very good role model men in they're lives growing up. And then again allot are very immature and don't feel it's they're responsibility even if they're paying child support they figure that's enough but money don't tuck the kids in just watch out for the good guys ma don't think it's all men
2006-09-14 14:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ray_Ray 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First don't you dare generalize "all men" and second you could've kept your legs closed. If you were my daughter the boy would be in the morgue and you would be raising that child on your own. If you want to play like an adult you can act like an adult. I'm so sick of the people out here acting as though they are all innocent victims of this "cruel" world and us bad men in it. Are you looking for everyone to take pity on the poor little pregnant girl? Oh well, what are you going to do now? Are you going to own up to your part in this and raise the child or are you going to toss it aside?
2006-09-14 18:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of these people who get pregnant and don't take responsiblity for their actions are boys and girls. They are not mature enough to be called men and women, if they can't take responsibilty. The reason why so many people do this, is because people always believe that "it'll never happen to me" and when it does, they don't want to have to deal with it, because they haven't prepared themselves for a child, which shows irresponsibilty, imaturity, and lack of self discipline.
2006-09-14 15:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by nimo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man here: never gotten a woman preggy. Um, maybe because they were poke'n fun, and she took it serious? No no no, that is not right. Probably because you only hear about the dead beats out there so you type "most" in your question, because you assume all men are irresponsible dogs. For those that do not take care of what they create I have no explanation or tolerance.
2006-09-14 15:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by B R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MOST MEN? Most men don't, honey. You must be living in a southern trailer park where that behavior is common. I would also like to point out that this wouldn't happen if women waited until they were married before having unprotected sex. YOU spread your legs, YOU agreed to have UNPROTECTED sex, so YOU are just as much to blame as he is.
2006-09-14 14:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do women get pregnant to guys who obviously only want one thing...ultimately its the woman who shoulders most of the outcome, so why not protect yourself before sleeping with people. That way you are not left holding the baby, so to speak!!
2006-09-14 15:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by lucy4b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋