Because I have been talking to someone and I was asking that person stuff and she replied and never ask me stuff. I was wondering what's going on? Does anyone know? How can you tell if a person is not interested in being friends?
2006-09-14 14:30:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it seems like you're talking to yourself (or the other person responds with short answers and no questions to you), or if the other person looks bored (not giving you eye contact, with bored, slumpy body language) when you talk, then they're probably not interested in what you have to say. find someone who will actively engage themselves in your conversation! :)
2006-09-14 14:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only talking to this person online and never in person, I really wouldn't worry about it. Maybe she just likes hearing more about you and doesn't like talking about herself. If she keeps asking you questions in the first place...she obviously has some interest in being your friend. Good luck, don't take things so personal...all people are different. :)
2006-09-14 21:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say, what I would do is ask her what is wrong, why doesn't she talks to you in a normal conversation. Or better yet ask her a question and if she answers with a smirk on her face and doesn't look at you straight in the face (eyes), she might not want to be your friend, or using you until she gets a better friend. Do you really need her as a friend? Ask yourself that question and decide from there. Do not belittle yourself to no one.
2006-09-14 21:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that happen all the time. Most people like to talk about themselves and sometimes people aren't outwardly interested. I rarely have people ask me too much about myself. With my friends, I am always interested in their lives, asking questions, but I can't say that I have any friends who ask me too much about myself. I don't take it personally. I know they like me. What I realized is that I am just much more curious than most. So I enjoy knowing my friends and don't require that they know me. But if there's something that's important to me that others know, I take the initiative and tell them. They're usually willing to hear me.
2006-09-14 21:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question means that you already know, this perosn is dropping subtle hints that is why they are not making an effort. You are better than this and should put your energy into someone else who is worth it. Because being friends should never be hard, it should be easy.
2006-09-14 21:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the conversations you speak of aren't about 50-50, both give and take, look elsewhere for friends. If she misses you, she will get in touch, and then you ask for an explanation. Perhaps she is just quiet and shy. If she doesn't contact you, your suspicions are probably correct, and you need to move on.
2006-09-14 21:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they aviod u walk away from u and just don't talk to u when u ay hi but when u talk to them it gets to be an awkward moment andd they just walk away or while u r talking to them
they can be very rude and stuff and just like talk about u and think u don't hear it but u do somehow soomeway find another person and try to be frineds with them there is always someone who needs a friend
2006-09-14 21:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she keep avoing you and when you aks her question she always keep her answer short that mean she dosen want to talk to you. you should try asking her some non personal question first. When you and her being chit-chating quit some time and she felt comfortable to talk to you then you can ask her personal question. they (the girl ) need confirm the guy who is asking personal question can be trusted so that they don tell anyone .
2006-09-14 21:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they only talk about themselves or show lack of attention when you are talking, well it's a pretty good sign that they aren't interested. It hurts to like someone and not get some back. It best to move on when you encounter that feeling. Your gut knows, listen to it. hugs
2006-09-14 21:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could tell that someone did not want to be my friend, when they never called me for a long time, then I called them, and it was like pulling questions, answers anything from them. After that I waited for them to call me they never did. Then I knew they were not my friend.
2006-09-14 21:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by mickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋