Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
Now it is obvious, she doesnt want to be more than friends, but my question is, is that because she is scared( she doesnt want to ruin the frienship,) or because she just doesnt like me
Now shes only 13, I'm 15, Ive like many girls, and had many crushes, and she is just different, I like Everything about her, and just cant let her go, what should i do?
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1 hour ago
Now, I am respecting her decision, and we havent spoken about it for 3 weeks. The last thing I want to do is smother her, so I am giving her every inch of space she needs. But 3 months ago, she really really seemed to like me, than when she found out I liked her she backed off. And now she's like that with other guys. But once we talked about it, she seems more comfortable talking to me, than she did before. Her and her mom are really really close, and her mom said she is just REALLY REALLY scared. Her mom wants me to date her daughter, she told me that. So I know I am good with ther parents, what should I do??
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24 minutes ago
Now I know she doesnt want to date me, she made that clear, but, in the 3 weeks since I've asked, she seems more comfortable, and occasionaly I'll catching her looking at me, and when I look shell look away, or almost like she wants me to notice her, but my question is Does she like me? because she could very well be scared or is she just letting me down easy,?
2006-09-14 14:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh too long, I'm not reading all that. It's time for bed.
2006-09-14 14:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont rely on the whole mom likes me thing b/c that may turn her off from u completely no matter how close they are.second she prob was showing interest in u kinda as her own little personal lets just see thing then when u showed it back she prob freaked and realized that may not be such a good idea. dont wanna lose the friend thing . so just chill out .if u catch her looking at u then just take note but dont act on it or nothing its one of those wait and see type things. she knows how u feel as far as more than just friends so let her work it out and always be there for her .thats the best u can do!
2006-09-14 21:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, what you have to do is put it all on the table. you ahve to talk to her. let her know taht things will remain the same. nothing will change if you begin to date. you have to know that she can feel safe in a relationship. she may be commitmentphobic. she could be scared to get into a relationship becuase she has only seen bad ones. you have to show her the good out there and that YOU are the good out there. you have to show her how to trust. i hope that you end up with her. it would be so cute. ~
2006-09-14 21:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by pinneapple_418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is pretty young to be sophisticated at dating.Give her some time to mature a bit.she' probably scared.
2006-09-14 21:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Ask her direct questions.
2006-09-14 21:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you, but do not push it as she is only 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 21:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋