why do u guys like to hurt girls so much im not saying this about all guys in general i mean just why do a lot of u guy like to use a girl to get in her pants and not have any emotional attachment or anything dont u care about our feelings at all and then another thing i wonder why u do it is why u would go and do that use a girl to get into her pants but then u guys go and brag about it to all ur friends why do u do that does it make u fell more man or something just answer those questions i mean dont u guys wanna be in a realtionship and fall in love i just dont get it
2006-09-14 14:08:29 · 12 answers · asked by droppantsnotbombs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like having sex cause it feels good. Girls like having sex because it brings two people closer. Yes, of course this is a huge generalization, but true for many people nonetheless. I think the best thing you can do for yourself is not have sex with someone until you are in a completely committed relationship. And one day you will find that amazing man that recognizes your need for emotional fullfilment, and give it to you. Good luck!
2006-09-14 14:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is going to fall in love because you want them to. Some will let you think what you want, some will lead you on, and some will lie to you. Sex does not make a relationship, it just feels good. The ladies can be just as callus and manipulative as any guy out there. So until two people have loved, lost & learned. Find out what they want in a relationship, find each other, are compatable & both really want it to work. Then and only then can you find what is the best thing in life! Respect each other and it can work, little respect is death to relationships. And yes we do talk about sex and our partners with some of our friends, it's good conversation. And we don't want to be left behind the "ladies man" you know, just trying to keep up some kind of manly image. If not then not just guys but the girls to will start to think your gay or something. So just think of it this way. You are going to do a few frogs before you find one that wants to be a knight.
2006-09-14 14:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by industrialconfusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real answer is that those kind of guys are in a phase where they do not want to be in a relationship. They just want to have sex. Most guys go through that stage at least for a little while, some guys never grow out of it. Guys at that point really dont care about your emotions all they care about is the instant gratification that sex gives. They brag to their friends because they want to look like they are cool and to their friends they are cool. It is just what guys do. You would be less concerned with the ways guys use you if you protected yourself from this event. Don't have sex if you cant handle being used for sex.
2006-09-14 14:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by therazorsback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all biological.
Humans are just animals and the males job is to get into the female's pants. This is just a fact of life.
You have your period about once a month and so does a horse. Have you ever seen a stud horse go after a female horse. That is all he is on this earth to do. Mate.
That is about all you are on this earth for when it comes to guys so get use to it and enjoy it. Have fun.
It doesn't mean you can not do other fun things in life but don't pretend that men need to act the way YOU want them to act.
Guy are not here to make you happy they are here to mate with you. If you mate with them then maybe they will be nice to you.
If boys are not the way you want them to be then don't be around them until later in life.
After you turn 50 you will not care about men any more because your hormones will make you non interested in sex and men.
Have a Great day !
2006-09-14 14:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As for my friends and I, none of us are really like that. How old are the guys you date? If your talkin High School, it's because of hormones. But even in high school I thought that it was pointless to pursue a girl if you didn't want to get to know her and have a relationship. Don't get me wrong I'm a guy and I love to have sex, but it's only fun for so long before you feel empty. The best girlfriends I've had are the ones that made me wait a while for sex. As for guys wanting to get into girls pants, I don't know, I've always been comfortable wearing my own pants. ; )
2006-09-14 14:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Smirx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no relationship...... men run on testosterone. whatever is in their tank might be too full so they need to release some. To keep the house normal and not so many people falling out of the building... :) we brag cuz we got some.... lol
some do want to be ina relationship it depends on the person...
Men dont know what emtion is. Men act on instinct. Thats how we catch food ..... :)
2006-09-14 14:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very hormonal and usually only think about sex. They don't even have to make an effoprt to have to emotional attachment. They just SUCK!! My man is awesome, and one day you'll find the perfect one like I have.
2006-09-14 14:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am sorry that a guy hurt you. Second some guys are out for payback for being hurt before. It's a vicious cycle, we get hurt and we hurt others in return. Third some guys are just @$$holes. You'll find the right guys that one just wasn't him.
2006-09-14 14:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girls, if you really like a guy make him wait. Also on thing that must be said for me and my brothers "we give love for sex , while women on the other hand will give sex for love" Life is full of lies and I hope you realize that pasta sauce has to be left over night to get the real Italian flavor. Get it??????
2006-09-14 14:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by swami242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women, it's all about emotions. For younger guys, it's the thrill of the chase. Once they have conquered, they want to brag.
2006-09-14 14:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋