My boyfriend usually calls at least 3 times a day. the first time usually being at 9 am. second at noon and third at 9 pm. well today he hasnt called at all... should i be worried? I called his work and they said he didnt show up today. i called his roomate and just got a voicemail. so i left a mesg saying formy bf to call me as soon as he can. that was at 4pm. and i still havent gotten a call from him.
2006-09-14 14:02:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. You are too dependent on this person. If you are that worried, then go to his house. If you have doubts about his faithfulness, then you will always have doubts. Move on. Be single. Start over some day. Good Luck!
2006-09-14 14:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down first of all!
Theres probably nothing to worry about. He might of had an emergency and didn't have time to call you and tell you or still doesn't have time. He also might be sick or his phone was lost or broken. There are millions of things that could have happened. Just be calm wait til he calls you. DON'T CALL ANYMORE. Once he calls you simply ask him where is was and why he didn't call. You'll see that he will have a good reason. And if you suspect he is lying TELL him that you think he is.
2006-09-14 14:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call one more time and tell his machine or whatever "that you're worried about him because it's not like him to not call you and that you're hoping something bad didn't happen to him or a friend or family member and would he at least call and calm your worries. And if it's something that has to do with us, I would hope that we're friends and that you care enough about me to do me the honor of telling me what's going on. So, I hope to hear from you soon." That's what I would say. If you find out later that nothing happened and he's just ignoring you, then he's braking up and he's just not man enough to tell you.
2006-09-14 14:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to call another friend of his to see if he is OK. Last resort, go over to his place. Find out if he is just having some problems and distracted right now. If he is OK and not having any problems, then you should worry.
2006-09-14 14:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by lady_reed_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he doesn't call at 9 then try him again. If you can't get ahold of him, then you could go check on him if that is an option. There are lots of things that could have happened...be understanding. Good Luck!!
2006-09-14 14:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a little concerned. Maybe he had a family emergency or something happened with his roommate. I'm sure you'll hear back from him shortly but I'd try calling his roommate again just to be sure.
2006-09-14 14:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by sunssecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my bf I would be showing up at his doorstep...and if he wasn't home, I'd be checking around. Yes, I would be worried if my bf always called me 3 times a day, everyday.
2006-09-14 14:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may want to try the police, and tell the your situation. Also be prepare to be ask to come to the station, or check the hospitals. Keep in mind, this is only if you are really concerned. do not alarm his family
2006-09-14 14:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very concerned but not worried until atleast 24 hours has past.See people do stuff their not supposed to and they even really get busy or family emergencys happen.Call his family, they should know.
2006-09-14 14:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry. He found an interesting girl to chat with and lost track of the time.
2006-09-14 14:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋