if not he wants to send me back to my country. I came to the U.S. last year being a K-1 visa holder and a few weeks later my husband and I got married. Around April this year I have recieved a temporary green card that allows me to stay and work legally over here. In order to qualify for the citizenship my husband and I have to stay together for next two years (since the day I've recieved the green card) and after that nobody would be able to force me to leave the country. Now that I'm pregnant my husband wants to to separate and send me to my country, while he would be sending me the money. Unfortunately I just cannot come back. I have mom that I have to take care for and a baby on the way. If I leave U.S. all of us have no future. I wanted to stay here and finish my college ASAP to be able to take care of the baby myself. Finishing college in my country is impossible for reasons that it's too long to write about. Does anyone think I could be protected by law in this situation?
2006-09-14 13:58:40 · 16 answers · asked by Miss baby 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Immagration lawyers usually know what to do. this will help you find a lawyer near you. good luck, make sure to get child support!!! rob that SOB!!!!!!
http://immigrationattorneydirectory.legalonline.com/legalonline/results.jsp?portal_id=68&domain=immigrationattorneydirectory-search-gg.com&keyword=Immigration+Lawyer
2006-09-14 14:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by bored at work 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
even now nobody can force you to leave this country, you are already married, you already have your conditional permit (that will be final after 2 yrs of marriage), you have work permit.....do not get in trouble...even if you love your husband let him know that you will keep your baby and that if he is still interested you can give him the divorce after you get permanent resident (become american), he can not send you back because you desagree with him on that, but if you feel in danger contact a lawyer so he can tell you what to do for your situation.....good luck...
2006-09-14 21:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by JTB 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try to find out if there is any legal aid in your area
you might be able to find out stuff at your local library
like groups that can help you
if you want this baby and you abort it you are kill a bit of our soul along with it
sometime its better to have little things in this world and to have someone to love
It took the two of you to make this baby and now hes making you pay
sadly your husband is going to keep making you pay and pay
being indebted to him like this is no fun now and it doesn't get better with time
2006-09-14 21:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by breakwhatz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can not do that . he can not send you back to your country only the immigration can but if he leaves you for that reason that you stated, it is not valid so you will not be deported back to your country. Do not let him scare you with deportation. If he divorces you, you will still not be deported because it was he who broke the marriage and not you.
2006-09-14 21:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i agree with alessandra, you should contact a lawyer, perhaps an immigration lawyer would be more helpful. since you are a student i would think there would be other ways to stay in the country besides your husband
2006-09-14 21:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by thelogicalferret 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be smart to see this one through. If your husband is beyond reason, then I am afraid the inevitable will have to happen for the greater good of what you say. However, once you have reached your qualifying period for staying, get your papers and divorce and sue the SOB for evrything that he has.
This is what happens when Nations do not give equal status to their female citizens. I suspect this SOB is used to treating women like they are commodities.
Best of luck.. I don't normally respond to questions like this but Jeeeez, this guy is vermin.
2006-09-14 21:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Consult a lawyer right away. You have your rights and should go to get legal advice on this. You have the right not to have an abortion cause it's also your child.
2006-09-14 21:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Egroeg_Rorepme 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him not the baby he had his chance to grow up now let this little baby get it's chance. They are too preciouse to hurt and you will miss out on the funny little things it say's and does. i have 2 grandaughters and i love every little funny thing they do. wouldnt miss it for the world. keep the baby and dont miss out
2006-09-14 21:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your married to a legal American and pregant with his baby,(not his best friends?) you should be able to stay as long as it's been over ninty-days?
2006-09-14 21:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by CROC DADDY 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He cant make you do nothing.Thats your baby too.Get ahold of a lawyer and get him packing.You dont need someone like that.Your in my prayers.
2006-09-15 00:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋