What should you do if you are in ove with a man who lives far away but wont call himself your boyfriend ?

Question

We did everything that a serious couple would do when he came to visit me. We are exactly alike an he says he loves me. He has a 2 month old son and his ex wants him back. I am not sure what to do.

Answer 1

move on....you deserve better and definitely deserve to be more than a part time girlfriend on the side....find someone who will appreciate the real you....good luck!!

Answer 2

If he won't call himself your boyfriend then it's time to lose your feelings for him and go find somebody else.

1) Dealing with another persons kid is easier than it sounds, and if you're still a college person than it's hard to give them and your schoolwork a good healthy balance.

2) If his ex wants him back and she's the mother of his son then they should probably get back toether. After all the kid deserves a chance at happyness as well.

3) I wouldn't date a man that wouldn't call himself your boyfriend, that shows he isn't ready to commit to another relationship. That means that you'd have more heartbreak then you would love in that relationship even if he is happy to give you attention right now. Seems to me like he's useing you for rebound purposes.

Answer 3

He doesn't want that slut! He wants you but doesn't wanna worry about the work involved in a long distance relationship. even though he is doing it anyway. I told you to talk to him about it. With out getting mad. that's your weak point. You cant loss your cool in the middle of an important heart to heart. You know he will just do what you do and block it all out. not good! Relax Lovey. He wants your smoking body! :P

Answer 4

Take a look at this in Wiki Social Skills

Long distance relationships
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Long_distance_relationships

Answer 5

does he want his ex back is the question........and you should be asking him.......