2006-09-14 13:49:58 · 15 answers · asked by hotmaxus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you all have very good answers, i can not choose a best answer so i will put it to a vote. thanks everyone.
2006-09-17 08:20:41 · update #1
sorry to hear but u never feel quit the same but u can still talk to her when u need to..her body is gone but she is still here
2006-09-14 13:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I hope that she passed quickly and painlessly, in her sleep perhaps. My mother passed away the day after Easter. She'd been suffering from a pituitary tumor that through many surgeries, took her sight, memories and her life. In the end, she went in her sleep. I can't say that everything will be the same but after a while things will be sort of normal. The main thing that will be different is that instead of being with her, you'll have the memories of her with you. You'll be able to remember what she looked like, smelled like, things that she liked or disliked, things that she said, the sound of her laughter and many stories about her that you can share with your loved ones. You will start to feel "normal" in doing your daily things but there will be times when you think about her and have a cry or two here and there. Don't try to stop it. It's a part of mourning someone you loved dearly. Best wishes and take care.
2006-09-14 21:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by mothergoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have wonderful responses from many others. Your mother has simply crossed over as you will in the future. Read the following books about near death experiences and past life experiences. Then you'll understand that she's still there with you and you can talk to her and ask for her guidance. Here are some books: Closer To The Light, Reunions, Across Time and Death, Transformed by the Light, Old Souls. Hang in there, it's all part of living and as difficult as it may be, life will get better!
2006-09-14 21:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will never feel the same again. But you will feel better. Death is as much a part of life as birth, and you've taken a huge step forward that you can never take back. My mom passed away several years ago and I still miss her more than I can say, but you learn to deal with it as time goes by. It makes you appreciate life more, as well as becoming more accepting of your own mortality.
2006-09-14 21:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am extremely sorry..my grandma is dying right now, and it is very difficult, so I can't even imagine how you are feeling. Try to remember the memories that you shared with her, and the good times that you had. It will be different, and you may not ever feel the same, but just believe that she loves you, and you might feel a little better.
2006-09-14 20:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shish247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really, really hurts, but only time can ease the pain. My mother died a few years ago and I think about her a lot. Sometimes, it's okay but at other times I just have to cry again, especially at Christmas because she loved Christmas so much. You will be okay but it's going to take time. I wish you peace and comfort as you go through this very difficult time.
2006-09-14 21:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Father passed away Jan. 2001. I really hate to say this, but NO. It never feels the same. You get use to the feeling, as bad as that sounds, but it never goes away. Sooner or later you will come to the point where everything will be life again. But for awhile its not going to be easy. Its going to hurt and theres going to be alot of emotions, Its hard to get through but you will survive
(Not trying to sound mean or rude)
2006-09-14 20:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom passed away when i was 13 i am now 47. yes it does get easier,but only with time.i have never forgotten her ,i still remember what she was wearing when i went to school the last day i saw her.talking and remembering the good times that uve had with mom help ease the pain and loss.i have a very understanding wife and when i get to missing my mom i know i can talk to her.its all part of the grieving process.it took a long time for me but now when i think of mom its with a smile cause i know she wouldnt want me to be sad.
2006-09-14 22:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by artcherman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definetley do. You will probably miss her and sad thoughts will come to mind in certain moments along the path after you have healed your open wounds, but you move along and make the best of what you have. Moms want nothing for their children but happiness in life, make your joy for life a tribute to her. She doesn't want you moaping around for too long! She IS somewhere watching over you, make her proud.
2006-09-14 21:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. My mom passed away 11 years ago. My life has been changed. A piece of me died with her. I just hope she is in a better place and at peace. I hope your mom is too.
2006-09-14 21:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋