I just re-entered the dating world after 20 years of marriage and some things are a little weird for me. I am getting used to the fact that most guys in their 40's and 50's have a lot of exes that they may still have in their lives as friends, etc. But the thing that is curious is the woman friends that they have that are usually the wives of their friends. One guy actually read me a note which started off "To my dearest Jim" and there was a lot of affectionate talk. Lately, my new boyfriend received a card from his friend Debbie, who addressed it to Angel Boy and said how she missed her "Bobby baby". Is this over the top or just friends showing that they care. Also, the new guy told me that another friends wife was so hot that he would "jump her" if she wasn't his friends wife? I want to either loosen up or be more selective with the men I date??
2006-09-14 13:36:09 · 7 answers · asked by Serendipity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I would dump this guy and not ask any more questions.....not worth it!
2006-09-14 13:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more selective. It doesn't sound like these guys have really gotten over their exes, which can lead to trouble later on. It also souds like the last one was a player, and not worth it.
2006-09-14 13:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what kind of guy your seeing but my husband does not have friends that say that to him and neither does any other guy i know. id be a little more selective
2006-09-14 13:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should get to know these women.
2006-09-14 13:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a player... or doesn't care about his friends... MOVE ON.......
2006-09-14 13:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more selective
2006-09-14 13:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont wrry about it
2006-09-14 13:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋