Please read and give honest , truthfull, answer, thanks.?
Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
Now it is obvious, she doesnt want to be more than friends, but my question is, is that because she is scared( she doesnt want to ruin the frienship,) or because she just doesnt like me
Now shes only 13, I'm 15, Ive like many girls, and had many crushes, and she is just different, I like Everything about her, and just cant let her go, what should i do?
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1 hour ago
Now, I am respecting her decision, and we havent spoken about it for 3 weeks. The last thing I want to do is smother her, so I am giving her every inch of space she needs. But 3 months ago, she really really seemed to like me, than when she found out I liked her she backed off. And now she's like that with other guys. But once we talked about it, she seems more comfortable talking to me, than she did before. Her and her mom are really really close, and her mom said she is just REALLY REALLY scared. Her mom wants me to date her daughter, she told me that. So I know I am good with ther parents, what should I do??
2006-09-14 13:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call her up and ask her out casually with a group event and see how she responds.....go from there.
2006-09-14 13:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chef Susy--Cookin it up! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, its a confusing situation. I would say go really slow, try to understand her body language. Be relaxed with her, cos if you show ur nervous cos you like her, she will def be, cos shes very young.
Good luck!
hmmm reminds me of my old days.... even tho im 21 :)
2006-09-14 20:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by DudeWantsAnswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out again but make it a place where her friends might be- high school football game? or the mall?
2006-09-14 20:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For heavens sake, she's only 13. Give her a break. If she wanted to date you, she would tell you. Find someone your own age.
2006-09-14 20:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this:
Business vs. Friendship
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Relationship_vs._friendship
2006-09-14 20:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend.. Aren't you all too young to date anyway? Any to me, it sounds like she really does just want to be your friend. It doesn't matter what her parents want or think.
Mavis knows
2006-09-14 20:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and try 2 bag her if u want..but from the sound of it she's not feelin' ya right now,but if you stay on ur p's and Q's and get a car,she'll be on u again,trust me.
2006-09-14 20:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a really good friend to her and make sure she knows your interested
2006-09-14 20:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your to young for love any way
2006-09-14 20:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋