me and my bf decided we are finally ready after four years. tonights it. do you have any ideas for me, by the way we want to be romantic so i need different positions. do you think me sittin on his lap facing him is a good idea?
2006-09-14 13:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by khghjhghu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first time....well I think you should do it the normal way.Let him start kissing you at leisure and both of you start taking off your clothes slowly till naked. Make sure he unclasps your bra and pulls down your panties. Let him play with your boobs for a long time. Get into bed and let him come on top of you.Ask him to kiss you all over and tongue your vagina.Play with his balls and stimulate his penis before sucking it.Part your legs only when you feel wet in between your thighs.Next let him mount you.The first few strokes should not be hard.Tell him to insert his penis slowly and stroke gently.Increase the tempo gradually till he is ******* real hard while sucking your boobs and lips.Make him last for at least fifteen minutes.Need last minute tuition contact me.
2006-09-14 13:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will always remember your first time, so you should make it an intensely romantic one.
Don't overanalyse the moment, thinking of positions, process. Just let your instincts and passions kick in naturally. Spend so quality time together before that. Have a nice romantic dinner, with wine, talk, romance each other and look into each other's eyes the whole time. When the time is right, tell him you love him and give him a long lingering kiss. You have to feel the intensity of your passion down to the tips of your toes. Get caught up in the intensity of the moment. Have some nice music on. Fresh sheets, nice lingerie, perfume. Mentally prepare yourself by thinking about how much you love him and he loves you.
Relax and take it slow.
The rest will follow, and come naturally.
Yes, and make sure he uses a condom.
2006-09-14 13:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience, and being with my bf for the same amount of time, I wouldnt worry about positions as much. That will come later. Just make the atmosphere romantic and it probably wont last very long =( Dont worry though if you waited this long it will be memorable and just a great experience. Good Luck and be safe!
2006-09-14 13:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by kittykat_paulina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you sure you are ready, because the first time the female is in pain and trying to pretend she's not and the guy is cluless. It might not end up as romantic as you think. It may seem like sex is a small thing, and if you view it as that, that's all it will ever be.
2006-09-14 13:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by pyxypower777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out facing each other, take his hand slowly...
Say "I Do" and then it will be the most romantic thing you have ever known. There's only one first. Don't give it to someone who might not be the last.
2006-09-14 13:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by dbackbarb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-14 13:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by The_Seaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time comes, you will know what is right for you.
2006-09-14 13:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah it is!also turn around!and also u could sit on his face..this kids gonna owe me one.
2006-09-14 13:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u
2006-09-14 13:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by DONALD M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a condom and then go for whatever
2006-09-14 13:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by babephatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋