Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 6 months. I love him so much We've been through alot of tough situations. We even snuck around when we wasnt able to see eachother. Im tired of doing all this sneaking around. Im ready to be with him without any body saying something. We never went out or did anything special together. My patience just cant take the fact of being with out him. The point is Im 16 his 20. what should i do yall. This distance is just drawing us farther and farther apart.
2006-09-14 13:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, keep ur relationship hidden until u make the big 18 then u can have all the fun u want and say screw u to everyone else.
2006-09-14 13:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you feel you are ready for a "real relationship", but you are going to have to consider the consequences if you continue on this course of actions. He is considered an adult and you are still a minor so your sneaking around will eventually lead to trouble for the both of you. Sometimes it is better to wait than to jump into something that you are not emotionally or mentally ready to deal with. I am speaking from experience. I went down that road and I am still trying to recover. Just try to enjoy your teenage years because once they are gone you cannot get them back.
2006-09-14 21:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by leebehave1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you are still underage. The fact alone, that you are sneaking around is because the both of you knows that you are too young to be dating a grown man.
2006-09-14 20:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez. Hun, sorry to break it to you- it's romantic and all- but you really should try and date someone your age until you become an adult. Not only for your safety, but to keep him out of jail. No sneaking a quicky in there. Tough love. Sorry to hear about it. Good luck.
2006-09-14 20:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope your parents don't read answers cause if they do you could be in a lot of trouble and you must want him to go to jail don't you either leave him alone and find someone your age or keep sneaking around you knew what you was getting into good luck
2006-09-14 20:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up and ride it out or break out. These are great years for you and him. Maybe distance or whatever. Maybe a friendship in a couple of years. Or who the hell knows maybe everything will be the a fairy tale and things will be just great.
2006-09-14 20:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, youre still so young to e soo in love that way.dont rush things, you're still young.
but anyway, talk about that with your boyfriend he might have the brilliant idea to say okay?because whatever i'll advise you might not be favorable or approved by him so better talk things over with him about what you like, what you want, how things should be,and everything. good luck
2006-09-14 20:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by snoopy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For now, don't date anyone who's older than 18. When you're 18, age doesn't matter as long as you're dating another adult.
He can get busted for statutory rape if anyone finds out he's dating you.
2006-09-14 20:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously girl i made that mistake and i don't want u to get in a relationship and then because everyone found out about it get out of it it is the worst relationship
2006-09-14 20:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by izzydwight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be stupid ! i'm 36 now 3 kids and divorced because i didn't listen to my parents and i was so in love with that man! 3 kids later i no longer love him . and yes they are all his.
2006-09-14 20:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by babephatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋