ok to make this short this is whats going on i have my bf i met him online playing this game called world of war craft anyways me and him have been dating for like 3 months already we talk on msn we talk on web cam and we talk on the phone only problem is that he live far really far away from me am in lancaster cali he is in arizona i really like him alot and he ask me if i wanna go live with him to arizona and i dont know what to do cuz i want to soo bad but i have my job and stuff over here and i want to go over there to live with him cuz i hate the fact of not seeing him in person soo what sould i do about that ??
2006-09-14 13:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reading your post you sound very young.If that is the case you have a whole life time ahead of you and for you to quit your job and just up root and move to Arizona to be with a guy who may just be using you or even have other ideas in mind sounds pretty irrartional in my eyes.I'd give this some more serious thought and maybe talk to some of your friends and get there input. Heres athought..Ask him if he would be willing to relocate to your city.If I were a betting man I would say he probably wouldn't and that should tell you something. Good Luck !
2006-09-14 13:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by javajoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you have answered your own question. If you wanted to move where he is at you would have moved by now and not be thinking about your job or stuff. Liking someone and loving someone are very different. How well do you really think that you know this guy. Ask yourself this, why does HE want you to give up everything to move where he is at and why doesn't he move where your at is he willing to give up everything where he is at for you? Living together is a big commitment especially when you really don't know this guy to well. Long distances romances are hard but make sure he feels as strong for you as you feel for him. For now continue what both of you are doing and try to on the weekends or every other weekend one goes to one place for a weekend and the other another weekend or if both of you can schedule the same vacation spend the week together. Just say you did move and gave up everything for this guy and things didn't work out and he turned out to be a real jerk you would be out of a job the lost of a place to live and there he is still at his comfortable life. Liking someone a whole lot is still not worth losing everything you have worked for all of your life!
2006-09-14 20:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by asia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing.. if you have never kissed, or held each other, he is not your boyfriend. He is a person on the net, that you like. I am sorry, that is not real... pay attention more to those in your real life. Internet is entertainment only.. For all you know, he has 4 other girlfriends in here.. and none of you have to know any different. If he loves you, he will come to you... and 3 months???? If only 3 months, I am sure he has a buddy list that you do not have access to....:), so if he is your boyfriend, tell him to come visit.. :) see how long it takes him to get to you..
2006-09-14 20:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have a job when is vacation time find out go on vacation to visit him and see if you like it there and possibly look for another job that way you know for yourself whether or not you want to live there good luck PS: cause at least on vacation you're getting paid that way you won't make a wrong decision
2006-09-14 20:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting his time, your time and my time by asking this stupid question and realize that this is just an online dating thingy and you know how they say that long distance relationshpis never work out? well in ur case a close relationship will never work out for u cuz u are stck in ur fantacy world
come out soon or u will end up getting hurt
2006-09-14 20:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your job go to school do everything you want to do before you get hooked up with someone. dont move for a man without a rock on your finger.
2006-09-14 20:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you a lot of luck-however you should get to know a lot more about him before you decide to go and live with him-and leave everything you know and love behind----------long-distance relationships often have a way of not working out
2006-09-14 20:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take an english composition class. It will teach you when to use capitalization and punctuation marks.
2006-09-14 20:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself......Him (one person who you've only known for 3 measly months) Versus your life (your job, your home, etc.).....What if it doesn't work out and why can't he move with you?
2006-09-14 20:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought he wants to kill you?That's what killers crave.A video game where they can get a hold of dummies like you.USE UR BRAIN-IF YOU HAVE ONE.
2006-09-14 20:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by Alana. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋