i hate him
i luv him
he iz soooooo confusing
i need to know why i can't stop talk about him please !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i told him today , because he was being mean to my friends and stuff and my friend said " i wouldn't be with u not even in ur dreams!!" i said " ... i think he is dreaming girl ..."
( he looked at me like ur in my dreams not her!!!!!!!!!!!)
and i just can't stop talking about him even when i totally hate him !!!!!!!!!!!!!
i still talk about him and i still get mad at people 4 saying stuff about him ....
tell me why i can't stop talking about him pleaseeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 13:07:14 · 25 answers · asked by Alice in NeverLand. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have a love, hate relationship with him. Go up to him tell him how you feel ask him out and tell him to stop being a douche bag.
2006-09-14 13:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cactus Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK deep breaths here girl easy on the exclamations (phew) that little bit of words got me tired!
first thing what is he doing that makes you hate him like that? more info on this would be great because he's got to be doin somethin' that's trippin you out here.
If he's being mean or pickin at your friends and you don't like it, let him know that if he can't hang around your friends then he can't hang with you.
but it does seem like you do care for this guy a little bit, if you two are in school (high school etc) then I wouldn't worry too much because you guys're way to young to worry about a serious relationship right now and focus on getting through school and getting your diploma and going to college.
Of course date this guy or date other guys, but you don't need a serious relationship, wait until you're in your mid 20's to deal with a serious relationship
2006-09-14 20:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This guy has a lot of power over you. And this is not at all healthy for you. To have power over you is to control you. Obviously, there's something about him that is magically drawing you under his spell. What is it? Only you can answer this. "To thine ownself be true."
But, how does he treat you? To disrespect your friends is really disrespecting you because you've chosen to hang with these gals and/or guys and they're a part of your world. So to trash them is not being considerate of your feelings and who you are as a person.
Don't play his game by allowing him to rent space in your head. He could turn out to be a really neat guy, but watch him to see how he interacts with and treats others before getting too involved with him. And please, don't go chasing after him. If he likes you, he'll come to you and do so in an appropriate manner. Not by being disrespectful to your friends at the same time he's making eyes at you. Best of luck.
2006-09-14 20:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this one. I understand that girls always fall for the "bad" boy, but talk to him first and really see where his head is at. Get the guts to tell him that you like him, but also let him know that he's a jerk and see what happens. Good Luck.
2006-09-14 20:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by nymischief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the chemistry he is setting you up for meanwhile hello you are on the back burner. Think about it is it really him that "driving you crazy or the scandal. I am not really sure if this the right answer but how about this LUST temporary obsession and you are obviously young so this won't be the first guy you get wierd about.
2006-09-14 20:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem almost, but i dont hate the guy, and i firgued out; you talk about them because in the back of your mind you like them, tho you dont want to admit it, and the when i stopped talking about him it was when my friend fixed me up wit her cuz, so i didnt like him at all.
2006-09-14 20:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave now.... move on. if he don't know what he wants.. then one thing for sure is ... it is not you.. that is a heartache waiting to happen.. get over what people say about him, it is probably all true.. he is not confusing.. you already have that womens intuition.. follow it... don't look in here for reasons to stay there with your feelings... follow your feelings.. stick with them.. no matter how much you want something... you asked this question for a reason... do not waste any of your time on someone who would not waste them on you... actually.. it is easy concept. move on
2006-09-14 20:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you really like him and it is hard to admit that you were wrong. If he acts that way now, it will only get worse. So you have to decide if you like how he acts. You will eventually get over him.
2006-09-14 20:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are aggriavated with him, but you might like him...
or you might just REALLY hate him.
lol but, i had a big crush on this guy and i always told people that i hated him, but i really liked him. I was mean to him and all this junk, and he didn't even know that i liked him!
2006-09-14 20:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by give me something to believe. ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you actually don't hate him (you're just pretending to) and you really have a crush on him.
2006-09-14 20:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋