:) the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 10:28:23
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answered by sasmallworld 6
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Practice in the mirror. Many choir classrooms have mirrors lined up the back wall for practice.
Try singing with a good friend nextto you. f you squeeze her hand while you sing you will do better. Old chior practice prooves this for higher notes as well.
Most importantly, you must believe in yourself to be able to sing. you need to over throw your fear and pump yourself up for this. If you know you can do this, then what are you waiting for, girl?! Nobody's going to kick your butt into gear for you. this is something everyone else won't come to aid you in personally. you have to be bold enough to carry your own heart in your hand. This is something we say in choir also before performances or single showings.
Good luck and best of luck on your journeys!
2006-09-14 20:11:06
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answered by yappalot 2
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You're just going to have suck it up and Do It. Once you do, you'll start to build your self confidence. And that's the key. I'll bet you find out you really like it. Pretend you're Barbara Streisand or somebody....Just get up there, and belt out a really pretty one!
I envy you having a good singing voice, ya know.....it' something I've always wanted and have no hope of ever having. I have a lot of self-confidence however.....if I lend you some of mine, will you lend me some of yours?
2006-09-14 20:03:24
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answered by kj 7
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*****************I had the same problem********************88
first start out singing with friends in a big group, to fast songs that anyone can sing. When you are singing to those songs do crazy dance moves or sing all out and loud and then say just kidding when you sing a wrong note. remember your friend's wont make fun of you because i'm sure their just as bac
2006-09-14 20:07:13
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answered by Lauren 1
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pretend you're all alone in a room, singing by yourself. forget those people and the stares. just sing like you always do.
2006-09-14 19:59:30
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answered by »SMiLEY« 4
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You have to just go at it ! Ask yourself why you should by shy?! There`s no reason ! Don`t worry . Just don`t be shy anymore .
2006-09-14 20:00:03
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answered by Confused 4
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just take a deep breath and try out for an audition in a musical
2006-09-14 21:35:01
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answered by Colin Night 2
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well i think you should just get over your fears and show everyone what your made of...sure everybody is shy their first time but once you get started itll be okay. trust me i no from experience lol
2006-09-14 20:00:34
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answered by swim_ducky_swim 1
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You may be able to sing but you sure can't spell.
2006-09-14 22:10:14
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answered by The Mick "7" 7
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practice with your family first, then with your friends, after that you can go to a kareokee bar and sing there
2006-09-14 20:05:57
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answered by flow z. 2
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