I'm new to this formum and read a few of the topics on crossdressing.
I would expect most guys to put down anything that varies away from the fragile male ego. If they didn't point a finger in judgement, they must have something wrong too, right. What's suprising is how negative the replies have been from the girls.
I've seen girls using words like sicko, pervert or emotional issues. He's probably gay. If it were just a few negative replys I would assume they were just a couple small-minded people.
Do clothes really make them so bad? A woman may feel comfortable in t-shirt and jeans, is it so hard to believe a guy might feel good in dress. Every cd doesn't look like Pam Anderson, but neither do most woman. In fact, I bet crossdressers put more into their appearance than 80 % of women.
No one has to like male crossdressing that's a personal choice. Do you know any crossdressers? How do you know if they are any sicker or perverted than your own mother or father or husband
2006-09-14 12:54:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People react that way because it is one of the last social "taboos" and it scares them.
2006-09-14 12:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are sick and messed up in the head. YES that's right! Men are men and women are women. Just because a woman wears a tshirt and jeans doesn't make her a crossdresser. Those men have probably had serious emotional abuse/neglect of some sort. YES there is a reason for it, some rendom guy doesn't all of the sudden just say hey I feel like putting on a dress today! These people (crossdressers) have issues!!!
2006-09-14 19:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by little mama kat 23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. There are more guys who don't wear dresses than those who do. Seeing a male in a dress is definately going to draw attention. There are lots of women who wear a t-shirt and a pair of jeans. There's nothing ironic about that. Now, going out in public seeing a guy with a load of facial hair, wearing a dress is definately going to make the average person crack up/judge the guy.
My opinion on crossdressers.. well they should realized that everyone is not going to understand why they feel comfortable in dresses. So I think that they shouldn't go out expecting everyone to just act normal about it. IT WILL DRAW NEGATIVE ATTENTION. PERIOD.
Maybe they had a bad childhood.
2006-09-14 20:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ LysoL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to judge anybody - not cross-dressers or anybody.
But, women wear slacks and tee shirts, as you say, because they are made for women. Cut for women.
There are no dresses, high heels, blouses cut and sold for men.
Women in jeans and tee shirts are not cross dressing.
Men, even in women's clothing and makeup are not pretty. They either look like prostitutes, (drag queens) or men in costume (cross dressers and transvestites) Its an oddity - no matter how hard a man tries to disguise as a woman, there is always that little something that gives them away - Adam's apple, big hands, big feet, whatever...
I don't confuse cross dressers as gay - I know most of them aren't. But though I try to be open minded, accepting - it doesn't mean I have to find them attractive, or well hidden.
Countessa: Way too much information!
2006-09-14 20:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could care less what any man want to wear. I do however draw the line at dating a cross dresser myself,(What if he looked better in women's clothes then I do) I have a friend who's husband like to wear women clothes in the house and she is fine with it. I say mind your business unless it affecting you.
2006-09-14 19:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could care less if a dude wants to wear a dress who cares. Seriosly do we not have more important things in this world to worry about then some guy in heals. Why is it sick because it's different. Diversity is what makes the world go round!!!!
2006-09-14 19:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by lunitari601 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if drag is your thing than right on.. i personally love drag nihgt.. haha.. silly Mylar.. it may not be my thing.. but its funny and cool and the people are always really accepting.. why shouldnt i be?..
i think that the guys that beat off wearing there gfs panties are alittle wierd.. but.. thats wierd..
but still.. i used to go to the RHPS.. back in the day.. and we dressed up.. and honestly... i felt SO sexy when i was wearing pantyhose.. i dont know why.. i still dont get it but it was like... ooh la la.. . and i epi;ladied my legs for a radio station once.. (OMG what was i thinking..) but id lay in bed at night and rub my legs together like a damn cricket.. and it felt good.. i understand why some guys dig it...
and not all men are all hee hoe. . macho men.. lots of guys are femmy.. do we hate them?.. then why hate the extreme.. ?...
no one judges guys who are too Manly.. even though there jerks usually
2006-09-14 20:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew David 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To each their own. Everyone is so concerned with whats going on in our neighbors yard, that no one bothers to fix their own. When you are 100% perfect, then I think that's the time when you get to judge other people. In the mean time, leave it alone.
2006-09-16 14:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by socalicd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. Whatever floats your boat hey. I think freedom of expression is a wonderful thing. People dye their hair, peirce their noses, wear turtlenecks. Cool. I think we need to start looking at ourselves before we put judgement on anyone elses decisions.
2006-09-14 19:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you tell me....what are the benefits of dressing like a woman. Does it make you feel better about yourself. Does it help you get in touch with your feminine side....whats the purpose, educate us.
2006-09-14 19:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's true. not every crossdresser has to be perverted or sick, it's just the way our society's made and we tend to judge people who aren't considered 'normal' to be 'weird.' what people don't know scares them. it's a fact. i don't know any crossdressers personally, but im just trying to sound fair.
2006-09-14 19:57:38 · answer #11 · answered by annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋