I got this chick number Saturday. Called her Sunday we had a good 30 min conversation. Tried to call her this whole week. M-thurs she never answers. Should I keep calling her? OR leave her alone? Did I call too soon ? What did I do wrong ?
2006-09-14 12:43:22 · 13 answers · asked by its_whatever11 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does answer text messages......................
2006-09-14 14:00:21 · update #1
Leave her alone see if she returns your call.
2006-09-14 12:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude have you thought that she might've given you a wrong or bad number? if you're sure she didn't, she may be busy during the week, and hasn't been able to get back to you.
Or you could look like a wuss or worse really desperate to her for callin too much and it turned her off; not only that you might've scared her off by lookin like a psycho for callin so much.
you did call too soon by callin back on monday, I woulda waited until tuesday to call her back or maybe as late as wednesday to at least let her know that you're still interested in her.
it can be a huge turn off to a woman if she perceives you as pushy; so give her over the weekend and call her once more the following tuesday or wednesday, and if she doesn't answer leave a message on her answer machine or voicemail on her cell phone (again if it was a good number that she gave you).
Make sure you leave a good message like "Just wanted to say hi and see how you're doing, " and add " i was wonderin if you were interested in a date." if you're interested in going out with her. But by any means DON'T leave a message like this : "why haven't you answered your phone?" or "Why don't you call me back?" because you'll look desperate, or worse a psycho to her.
If she doesn't call back after the last time you call, you can pretty much say she's done with you chief.
good luck and I hope you didn't scare her off.
If she doesn't call back
2006-09-14 20:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mm.. You should have called her back on Monday then given her a chance to call you back without calling her back every other day of this week. So.. from here you either need to stop calling or stop calling for now until maybe Sunday or Monday. If that doesn't work out and still no call back, give it up.
2006-09-14 19:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you she can call you. Stop chasing her for a few days and wait. If she calls you she is interested if not it is not the end of the world.
2006-09-14 19:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by answergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a week an call her once. an if she still doesn't answer, move on an forget about her.
2006-09-14 19:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait awhile and try in a few days or so cuz you don't wanna look desperate.
2006-09-14 19:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a message, then stop calling.
2006-09-14 19:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..i called and now i'm harassing, so to speak. be very careful of the times you call her. if she's not calling you back by now, she's not for you.
2006-09-14 19:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by marie34 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT KEEP CALLING HER IF U LEFT HER A MESSAGE LET HER CALL U AND IF SHE DOESNT CALL U THEN CUT YOUR LOSSES AND MOVE ON.
2006-09-14 19:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by smiley283 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop call her because she will think u are sweating her
2006-09-14 19:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by natureboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋