2006-09-14 12:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by gabriel m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget all this garbage about saying I LOVE YOU or anything of the sorts. Oh, I don't know about you but "be yourself" doesn't really give me a whole lot of specific instructions to work with . Here's what you do. First you gotta get this girl to laugh. Say funny things around her and to her, when you talk. NO DIRTY JOKES! Do not compliment her, because you'll be one of 673 other guys who've done that. If she's cute enough to compliment, chances are she's heard it all so shut up. You need to ask for her HOME phone number. When a girl likes you, she'll be thrilled to give you the digits without putting up a fight. I need to know how old you are before going any further so hit me up!
2006-09-14 12:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing if its forced ,or something you think will work. Women are very intuitive and will pick up on anything from a man that is not geniune, so let it flow naturally, and even if you mess up ,a girl that is into you anyway will let it slide but if she is not into you at that time she may remember a good conversation later, rather than some lame line or fake talk that made her feel uncomfortable. I was a player in my day and believe me ,just not saying or doing something stupid works evertime. Just keep it real ,and when the time comes the right words will come out if you let them
2006-09-14 12:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brian M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hi my name is Jerry and how are you and i have seen you in class and would you like to hang out this afternoon after school and maybe go to a movie later if you like to. That's how i would start or just give her a secret note saying the same thing and if she says no don't worry there are others out there.
2006-09-14 12:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her about her interests, and LISTEN! She'll know if you're faking it. If you do listen, you might actually learn something. Let her know that you are sincerely interested in what matters to her. When she asks, and she will, tell her about what matters to you. Leave the floor open for her to jump back in and talk about herself. The more you learn about her, the more you'll know if she might be right for you.
2006-09-14 12:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take ideas from people but only say what is true to your personality.
If you put on a show or pretend to be someone you're not she's going to find out pretty quickly.
2006-09-14 12:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be sincere. Be yourself. You find her smile something to celebrate? go ahead and tell her in a way you feel comfortable with. And remember, always be yourself.
2006-09-14 12:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jose Miguel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but it's best just to be yourself. If you like her, tell her she's fun to be around. Don't smother her with phone calls, notes, etc. Give her some space.
2006-09-14 12:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dunno, probably says things like:
~ Joke, but not too obvious
~ Don't try too hard, by try enough to make her notice you
~ DON'T COMPLEMENT HER CLOTHES (unless she seems to have made an effort) it is too boring
~ Actually listen to what she says, but if she doesn't have anything to say that interests you, your liking is all material, so not worth it.
HTH, and Good Luck
2006-09-14 12:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by n/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would climb on top of the wardrobe and shout "Brace yourself, Ethel!"
2006-09-14 12:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by LayZee Nerd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her sh'e sexy and that u wanna do her
if she says eww get away from me u pervert then she doesn't like u, if she giggles then she likes u
2006-09-14 12:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by LaBeLlAvItA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋