Do you find it unattractive when a girl that your going out with uses bad language? (F***, Sh**,Di**)
This is more of a survey that Im doing about etiquette
2006-09-14 12:39:29 · 34 answers · asked by emjay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, sort of, especialy if its all the time. I dont mind the occasional s**t or other colorful enunciations, but effin this and effin that is not really lady like. I can go out with the boys for that.
2006-09-14 12:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aurora the term is lady not girl
A girl is a woman that isn't old enough to date
A lady on the other hand is what a guy would like to date a person mature enough to act responsibly in public and if she feels the need to cuss and swear can remove her self in order to keep her dignity and self worth .
In this time and age it is more acceptable for women to act the same as men do but I personally think that a guy using fowl language in mixed company shows no respect for the others about him or her for that matter . keep the bar room gutter talk for those places were the people expect to hear it.
2006-09-14 12:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The level of approval for inappropriate language changes as years go by. As you get older you begin to reflect on things you've said and done and wonder why someone didn't tell you what an attention seeking, big mouth you really were. It really is embarrassing. The need for attention is the only excuse I could offer the some of the things I've spouted.
2006-09-14 12:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by rikerrew02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try not to use bad language and would rather use the delicious English language to paint the right expression of what I am feeling and would respect the same from my partner.
2006-09-14 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the context. Using "bad" language has a time and a place, but in excess it's uncalled for and distracting from conversation.
2006-09-14 12:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-14 12:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by mcreta18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kind of...it doesn't sound right when a girl uses bad language, unless if she gets in a fight and starts talking trash to the other person..but i think it is unattractive.
2006-09-14 12:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what and how many times in a conversation. At some point, I would surely ask her to chill out.
2006-09-14 12:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a turn off.
Especially when you invite your girlfriend over for dinner to meet the parents and during the meal she says "pass the f%&$in' salt"
2006-09-14 12:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the educated ones find it unattractive when you use "your" when you really should be using "you're."
You're = you are. As in, "a girl that you're going out with."
Your = possessive. As in, "your girlfriend."
2006-09-14 12:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋