is it unusual to be called names during sex and liking it? I mean, in normal circumstances i would be appalled if someone called me the "b" word or "c" word, you know?
2006-09-14 12:34:22 · 32 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm.... as long as that doesn't "spill over" to the rest of your time together, I suppose it doesn't hurt. It's a bit weird, though. Sex is really intended for people who love one another, and that doesn't sound very loving.
2006-09-14 12:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are worse things you could like. People like strange things during sex and don't know why, women don't like to be hit but getting spanked during sex turns alot of them on. It is ok, what you enjoy behind closed doors shouldn't be a problem.
2006-09-14 12:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of worrying about what's "usual" or "normal", think about how it makes you feel. If you like it, let it go. If there are certain names you don't like, suggest some alternatives.
I wouldn't like to be called those names, but there are some other names that my boyfriend calls me in bed which other women might find offensive. It's really just whatever works for you.
2006-09-14 12:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have fun and play and do whatever you want to do and you're both comfortable, of course its normal. It fun you when you can be with someone you trust like that. Have a great time and don't worry about normal. It is all fine as long as you're both okay and no one gets dead. Best of sex to ya!
2006-09-14 12:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it, let you guy know. He should respect you for that. I personally wouldn't want to be called those names during any situation, let alone sex.
2006-09-14 13:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by kcyesye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats disrespectful incredibly if your in a protracted term relationship and to be truthful if thats the way a guy is conversing i woulnt % to be responsive to what he has been with already! Yea positive if it happens throughout the time of a one evening stand considering the fact which you dont be responsive to what to anticipate yet different than that no way!
2016-11-07 08:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very natural.
I love the dirty talk and name calling during sex.
2006-09-14 12:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I hate the b word normally but it makes me so horny in the throws of sexual encounters. Name calling I have found very normal.
I think alot of it comes from our stereotypes of sex growing up, most of us were brought up to think it is wrong or dirty. When we learned to like sex, we took on that bad persona, and it only applies to our sexual lives.
2006-09-14 12:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by karruttopp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever turns you on. I know sometimes it's fun to have my partner "talk dirty" or cry out, but name calling is new to me. At long as they don't yodel or start reciting all of the state capitols, I'm good though.......
2006-09-14 12:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a cool guy he will use the sweetest words for your ears not calling you the b"and the c"it should put you off if he dares call you those names.there is words like encouraging someone to enjoy,tell your parner how you are feeling,tell them how it should be done and with a mixture of hourse voice who would not want to stay inside you the whole day and night ,but call me a slut i will slap you and get out imediately
2006-09-14 12:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋