theres this girl at my school that i liked since middle school shes not very popular among guys and from what i know,she doesnt really talk to guys so she might not be interested in a relationship,i had her last year for a class but not anymore,when i see her in the hallways i sometimes say hi to her but i DONT know if she likes me back,what should i do to find out?? im thinking of just staying like this so i wont get "friend zoned" and then ask her out to prom next year
any advice?
2006-09-14 12:15:34 · 19 answers · asked by XZELSOR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok heres what yea do, if your school has lockers, you go up to her locker and lean against the adjacent one, you say some small talk, be creative talk to her-about her, then you say "...if you aren't going out with anyone..." or "If you aren't doing anything later..."
Hope it helps, SMOKE
2006-09-14 12:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Burning out, not fading away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her more and invite her out to coffee or something like that. See if she can help you with some homework, or wants to go out for lunch with you, if she says yes, then she's interested in you. If you want to play it safe to ask her to prom next year, sounds like a good idea to start talking with her a little more and keep her remembering you, but what if she finds someone else. If you don't want to loose her, then ask her out, that way things might go even better then you think when it comes to prom! Good luck either way!
2006-09-14 19:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you describe, it sounds like she may just be shy. Dont assume she doesnt want a relationship. Just go up to her and talk to her about something like a class or anything she might have in common with you. If she responds well, then ask her to hang out. If not, maybe you should wait. Good luck!
2006-09-14 19:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay take it from me, most girls would rather go out with a friend that they trust rather than some random guy they don't know very well. Become her friend. She'll be more likely to go out with you in the long run. Plus if you're her friend now, maybe you won't have to wait for prom to ask her out! Good Luck.
2006-09-14 19:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD START TALKIN TO HER MORE AS FRIENDS SO THAT WHEN PROM COMES AROUND YOU'LL BE MORE COMFORTABLE ASKIN HER TO IT! JUST BECAUSE SHE'S NOT VERY POPULAR AMONG GUYS DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, MAYBE NO GUY HAS ASKED HER OUT! ALL I CAN SAY IS TRY TO GET TO KNOW HER MORE AND THAT WILL GIVE YOU MORE CONFIDENCE TO TALK TO HER AND BECOME MORE THAN FRIENDS!!!
2006-09-14 19:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sxhe dont talk to guys because she is shy an thinks that no guys are instrested so start off w/ a little flirting an then ask her out i think she wont turn you down so what have you got to loose? nothing an everything to gain
2006-09-14 20:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to actually talk to her. Ask her a question about school. Introduce yourself first. And never, ever ask someone you barely know to prom. You will have a miserable time.
2006-09-14 19:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt really know you, she probably wont like you. so i think you should get to know her, talk to her and start hanging out with her. but dont do it too suddenly. once you get to know her and she feels comfortable around you you can ask her to prom.
hope i helped
2006-09-14 19:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. it sounds like shes just shy...i mean i talk to girls a lot but i dont talk to guys really unless they talk to me because i get shy around them. lol. and if shes shy she prolly wants a relationship....more than u know. lol. especially if shes not popular w/ guys...she prolly has self esteem issues or something. sry this girl just sounds like me. if i were u i would ask her out. if she asks if someone put u up to it say something like "no, i really like you" or something. lol.
2006-09-14 19:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
secret admirer notes in the locker. Flowers taped to her locker. Keep doing little gesture till you feel you have her attention and you think she may be interested.
2006-09-14 19:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋