I'm involved in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. A few months back I saw in his computers history that he was looking at homosexual porn..welll..that..plus girls..then some transvestites..then some some boys...then some girls peeing on guys..weird stuff..
I was very very confused on whether he was gay or not! After recieving advice from others I decided to stay with him a little longer to see if his curiosity would continue or if it was just a one time thing.
It wasn't! He still looks at it. It's now a mixture of transvestites...men on men action and girls with huge breasts..I check every once in a while and he does it pretty much whenver I'm not around.
-Does it mean he wants to be with a man?
-Is he confused?
-Is he bi?
-Will he experiment in the future even if we were to last?
-Is he satisfying his sexual urges before/after I get there/leave because I can't satisfy him sexually?
WTF?!?!
2006-09-14 12:12:27 · 34 answers · asked by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that he may be bi-sexual. It has nothing to do with you, it is a chemical imbalance in his head and problems with his DNA. I had a friend who came ou the closet after a year and a half, 2 years later he got married to a woman. He told me that just because he goes both ways, doesn't mean he has to have both and is faithful. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2006-09-14 12:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
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2016-07-24 16:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him playing sports in college has absolutely nothing to do with being straight or gay. If he was doing more than just watching it, he's most likely bi, or gay... no straight man would jack off watching gay porn. In my opinion, he's a closet gay man and he's too afraid of admitting it because of his manliness. If I'm right, you're just an accessory to him...
2016-03-27 01:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be bisexual, he may be looking at porn involving real girls, but if he's looking at porn with guys and transvestites, he may want to experiment in the future. If you can accept him for being bisexual, and he loves you, and you love him, then stay with him, but prepare to catch him trying to hit on men or transvestites. If you just want a regular straight guy without all this drama, then just leave him and remain friends, it might get too complicated if you stay with this guy
2006-09-14 12:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOooo Girl! Unreal. I know how you feel. I dated a man for a year and he used to go to this voyeurism (sp?) website... yea, he had a membership to it and everything. One time I busted him, but just pretended I was checking in on him... so he showed me some "home videos" and I pretended to be interested. Well, my farsical interest led to him wanting to use a video camera on us... and dropping hints of other twisted stuff. Shortly after my discovery, I found out one of his reasons for getting divorced was because he secretly video taped his teenage step daughter in the shower. My point is... if this is all this you are seeing now, just imagine what you are NOT seeing or where it could lead?
I might suggest renting Brokeback and mind his reaction.
2006-09-14 12:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN!!! If he tries to get some booty action kindly ask him what the deal is. Politely ask what is going on slide in the fact that you have seen his history a couple of times and it has you kind of worried. Make up something about why you were looking at the history. You really need to know because AIDS and STD's are REAL. Don't you watch MTV BET...WRAP IT UP!!!
2006-09-14 12:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ought to tell him that you've been looking at what he's been looking at on his computer and have it out with him. He may well be a bisexual transvestite and he might want you to pee on him. He may also be gay and not bisexual, therefore, using his relationship with you to cover up his gayness.
I'm a bit confused with this though, as transvestites are rarely gay.
2006-09-14 12:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Strawberry_Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously must be dating my ex. I went through this a few years ago and left him because of the uncertainty. Best thing I ever did - even though he was a fabulous guy in so many other ways.
We still keep in touch, but there was too much doubt in my mind to stick around.
Good luck - I can genuinely empathise with you.
2006-09-14 12:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he was bi. Or maybe he just thinks it's interesting? You should talk to him about it. Don't accuse him, just sort of bring up the subject. "Sometimes I look at different sexual things online. Do you ever do that?" Then see what he says. He might just be curious. Just ask him and be honest.
2006-09-14 12:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Emily L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im a fkin horny man,but iv only lukd at gay porn once,and its not on purpose. a normal man will think gay porn is absolute yak, i just want to go puke right after. so wot i think is that he is bi, i dont think anyone else will understnd wot im sayin here but if u can describe urself abit,lyk r u a busty lady or sumthing?r u gud in bed? gay normali have a busty mum or sister or sumone lyk that to grew up wit, and females becum unattractive to him and thats how it started. chat wit him abt this stuff, bt dnt call him gay at all.
anyway i dnt think ur bf is gay:
1,if ur hot and he looks at porn, then he is gay.
2,if u guys hav enough sex,or ur satisfying him, and he looks,then he is.
3.if he constantly watch porn, only gays r in there,then thats just sum bad porn.
2006-09-17 19:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by autumnray 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way you are ever truly going to get these questions answered is by asking him.Talk to him,if he doesn't want to talk to you about it straight away,maybe because he is embarrassment as he is just curious,or maybe he is still confused about who he truly is.Either way you have to talk to him,as you have the right to know as you have been investing your emotions in him,and why would you want to be with some one who is not truly investing theirs back in you.Hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-14 12:19:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋